Hiiya there excited for participating in your tarot game :3
My initials: SG
I'm a saggitarius rising
My age : 18
I do not have any aries placements
My question: What are my shadow aspects which I need to work on in terms of romantic relationships
Thank you so much š
Aspects you need to work on in terms of romantic relationships
I'm inclined to believe that you are someone new to romantic relationships. Perhaps you've recently had one or were in the process of getting into one, avoided the inevitable and it was too complicated. You tend to have a desire to start a relationship but have a hard time taking the initiative to connect emotionally with people. There are vulnerability issues stemming from a lack of self-confidence. You think you are not capable of initiating something and being vulnerable, but the irony is that you are. There were times and occasions when you could have used that ability to connect, but you resisted. The potential was there, but in the past you had a hard time sustaining a relationship because of that inability to open up on an emotional level. Your insecurity clouds your ability to make a deep emotional connection. Subconsciously, by letting yourself get carried away by these insecurities you prevent your personal growth. You don't want to look in the mirror and see your most vulnerable and insecure areas. But in doing so, you're left not knowing what areas on you need a trim, a new dye job, a little touch up, etc. You're stunting your growth. When you enter a romantic relationship, it's important to collaborate with your partner-open up, communicate, set boundaries, and recognize when it's time to let go if things aren't working. In your case, you are having a hard time with this process. What things did you like about the relationship? What abilities could you have explore that your insecurity prevented you from doing? What things were part of your immaturity as a person and not the other person's fault? You need to let go of that control. You have to recognize what you can control and what you can't. If things don't have a solid foundation, you have to let it go. Don't hold on to something that is going to bring you down and only cause you more pain in the long run. It is when you begin to see it from this perspective that you will finally be able to free yourself from those weaknesses that hold you back in your romantic relationships. Currently that blockage to your potential in being vulnerable makes you resistant to change and keeps you stuck. That is what you need to work on. These patterns are built and if they continue they can be reinforced. When you set boundaries, and accept that certain conflicts and processes are necessary in romantic relationships (and must happen no matter how reluctant you are to let it happen), you will finally break free from this stagnation. Studying about emotional intelligence, and communication as a couple will help you get out of this stagnation! I highly recommend Steph Anya's videos, CinemaTherapy and other YouTube channels of licensed professionals who offer help in these areas.
hey, I'm here for the game. Already rebbloged and followed, my initial is M and i'm 24
Who has a big crush on me?
Thank you!! šš§āāļøš¬
Who has a big crush on M?
10 of wands rx, ace of wands
The person who has a big crush on you is someone whoās recently let go of a lot of mental blocks that held them back before; their shyness is one. They feel a strong attraction to you, but itās not just about physical chemistryāthey also want something more stable and meaningful. However, theyāre struggling with their timidity and not expressing their feelings openly yet, even though theyāve definitely been watching you closely, maybe through social media or in casual interactions. They are trying to secretly get intel about you. This is likely someone in your everyday life, quietly admiring you from a distance while trying to figure out how to approach you.
Hey I read a pac of yours and you were talking about me!. It was so accurate. Just the confirmation I was waiting for . Thank you so much. Love ya! š
Aww reading this just made my day šš Iām so glad it resonated with you. Sometimes the right message shows up exactly when we need it. Thank you for taking the time to tell me, it honestly means a lot š„ŗš Sending you a big hug!
https://www.tumblr.com/clairdelunetarot/766736001566654464/hi-im-pp-18-pisces-rising-i-have-no-placements
tysm for the reading! it was honestly so so on point.. i am def v guarded and that is a result of my past experiences. me having feelings for someone was something that was a very innocent and hopeful thing that now just makes me sad. i worry about letting someone close to me out of fear but i am also never approached romantically so it just keeps me in this bubble. i also have quite high standards after those experiences!! and i am definitely going to bring them down loll. thank u so much for the kind words and guidance š«¶š«¶
thanks for sharing your thoughts! ā£ļø i am so happy it resonated with you, yay! š„³ and i get it. it is understandable to feel guarded after what youāve been through but remember: itās not your standards that need adjustingāit's those walls. you gotta reconnect with that inner child again. high standards are a reflection of your self worth. if you are never approach romantically donāt let that take a toll on your ego at all. don't think that's a reflection of your worth. i'm often told that i'm conventionally attractive, but do i get approached by many people? not a single one. just stares LMAO. the number of people (men in my case) who pull the classic "i don't want anything serious rn" while wanting to act like a couple or "let's get to know each other first" while having you to the side is immeasurable this days. so DO NOT lower them please. since I raised my standards a few years ago, the same thing happens to me. the minute you lower them men come to you like flies.
true & honest love is haaaard to come by. I've come to enjoy my own company a lot; it's not something that bothers me at all haha. the moment i started to enjoy my solitude i havenāt been able to look back. personally, I know my own qualities and what I bring to a relationship, as well as what Iām looking for. relationships take time and energy, so Iām very selective about who I share that with. Itās not about lowering your standards, but about being intentional with who you let in. after so many bad experiences i am not going to waste my life on connections that don't add up for me, really. anyways take your time and trust that the right person will match you!
I have noticed strong similarities between my content and this person's ever since I created my blog, and just a few days later, this person @/hermetiqa changed the aesthetic of theirs. I know i am a small blog with less than 400 followers and i disappear a lot. I have had sad experiences with plagiarism before, people have stolen my work (tarot and non tarot), and even if this isnāt exactly that, itās really frustrating when someone with a bigger blog starts taking a lot of inspiration from you, never acknowledges it, you block them, and even after being blocked, they come back and keep doing it.
Thereās no problem with being inspired, the issue is the context and how often it happens. Especially because this person changed their aesthetic after I opened my blog, along with their masterlist. I only found out now that they kept going because some friends outside my tarot blog told me. My last post was in November and guess what? So was theirs. I donāt know them, and they donāt know me. But the vibe here for me stinks bad. Thereās also one thought that crossed my mind, even if it sounds silly: their blog has been around longer than mine, so what if I come back and they do it again? I won't feel comfortable because they made it weird. They could have said: oh and this masterlist was inspired by clairdelune. Like, they have paid readings, and are gaining money out of people. If you are having a business at least be transparent and support newcomers with their small business too when there's something you like or something you take inspo from.
PSA: I don't want anyone to give me advice on how to proceed, I just want to vent about this and not feel like I'm crazy. Even if it doesn't seem like it, this takes A LOT of time and days. Making tarot readings for a lot of public is draining because of the energies, and then decorating and coming up with something to make it look attractive is also draining. It's not a crime to get inspired, but the way this person has handled it has made me angry and feel a very bad energy around it.
For context this was their blog before:
It was simple, cute, straight to the point with three pictures. When you went down to read your pile, no section of "signs" with mbti or astrological placements where there. I love mbti, i checked their readings superficially and never noticed them referencing them. Here, you can see it for yourself:
then here's where it all started for me. This is what their masterlist looked like before:
Now this is what it looked like after taking inspiration from me and not even changing the roman numbers. Just changing small details but the essence is there. That's the difference with inspo and copy. You can take inspo from someone but the essence is going to be yours. If they did not change a few little tiny things, this would be confused with mine.
After this I blocked them. My thought process was: If they are a big blog and can do this with no one raising their eyebrows, It's safe to say they could even take inspo from my pictures and even readings. I don't know them, I don't know if this could be a one time thing or something that can continue, or worse: something that can enter plagiarism. I was hoping this would be enough for them to never see my blog again. But no. It kept going. At least they haven't copied what i write as I am aware.
Now, this can get tricky because unlike plagiarism, this is more inspiration based. Which is not a crime, but again, this being done heavily, with no acknowledgement whatsoever because i am a lesser known blog and after getting blocked? Not so nice and too much to be coincidence. Check the dates.
Same months, and this one took two weeks because before that, they posted another reading in between. I mean, putting floating png objects is not a trademark. But after I blocked them for what they did with my masterlist it pissed me off. Right now, them gaining more interactions with their post after this and with no acknowledgement is what did not sit well with me. It is hard to be a new blog in the tarot community and opening a ton of ask games for people to then unfollow you when they get their energy and reading from you and never interact with your blog again. Specially when this was a chance for you to get some money for college. But then again, seeing the strong similarities gets tricky, but you can see the inspiration.
Mine:
Theirs:
They never posted that section before. You can see it in their readings before, right? So when I started posting it too, guess what? they did it too. You know, it doesnāt feel fair that even after blocking them so they would leave me alone and find someone else to get inspired by, they still have this recurrent thing with me and might keep doing it with anything new I come up with. Because i stopped posting readings, the last reading I posted was the same theme (romantic partner) and with strong similarities as mine. I have not posted ever since. The one before that for me was future spouse related and theirs too. You know what's crazy? Mine got a lot of trouble and issues with the aesthetic I had to pull it down. This person's energy is so down heavy it made me put down my reading.
This can be called speculation, but we are in a spiritual community and I believe this could not be a coincidence and their energy towards me is not a good one. You can check the date. All in november. This is also a warning for other tarot readers, if you are sensitive like me with people's vibes, beware when opening a tarot blog.
They don't just do it with one thing and move on, they keep doing it with several things even after not being well received by my end, and it becomes annoying and it literally made me put my own post down.
I just want to leave this here before closing this blog and moving on, because honestly this hasn't been my year and I know itās just starting, but little things like this don't give me a good vibe to keep running such an open blog to any audience. The energy is so draining and I want to do impulsive things like deleting my posts. Because I start thinking back to times where people straight up stole my work or envied it and posted it as theirs and I don't want that happening again.
Again, please, be mindful with your comments. If you have something rude to say, keep it.
everyone shut the fuck up iām trying to focus on my diabolical homosexual thoughts
Welcome to my SECOND TAROT GAME ! I will be answering free questions to the first ones that meet the requirements. If you want to participate read the rules, requirements and fill out the form! You have until this Friday, November 8th, at 6:00pm EST to participate. I will be answering the first 10 asks on a first come, first served basis.
You must be at least 18 years old.
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Don't ask vague questions.
No yes or no questions or very specific timing/location.Ā
No medical/legal advice.
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Fill out the form.
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If you forgot a detail in an ask, you can send it again with the full information, but it is likely that someone else will steal your position. For example: you were the 3rd person when sending your ask, but you are now the 4th person when resending it.
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Have you been going through constant problems in a specific area of your life? these problems have left you lonely or feeling overwhelmed? You're not alone! Let's find out about this specific area and how to survive it in the best way possible.
This time you need to formulate a specific question based on the themes of personal growth (it can be romance, studies, your relationships/connections with others, etc.). The themes need to be based on the true node rx in aries we are experiencing currently. To be more specific, if you want to ask a question about romance it canāt be how someone feels for you, it must be on theme with personal growth like: where is this relationship headed, why am I struggling to find romance... For this game, I will use 3 cards for the spread instead of 2. You need to give me information to understand a little bit about the current true node in aries in your birth chart, before you send a question. What I need is in the form.Ā
Initials
Age
Rising sign
Do you have Aries placements on the earliest degrees? (those from 0-10) If yes, then tell me. If not, don't worry it's not required.
Your question based on a theme of personal growth. Some question ideas: How can I support women better? How can I be a better friend? How am I as a friend (strengths and weaknesses)? What strengths and weaknesses do I have when dealing with problems?
hii, hope you're doing well!! I'm A and my age's 20 š
Since i saw that you do romantic readings, i'd like to ask about how people will view me and my future spouse as a couple. Please and thank you!! š§āāļøāØ
How will others see A and their future spouse as a couple?
page of pentacles rx, 8 of wandsĀ
People might view you and your future spouse as a bit of an unconventional pair, with a dynamic thatās not always easy to read. People might initially see you both as a bit unprepared for commitment - maybe you're that couple who's still figuring out basic adulting stuff, or you married too soon āafter meeting for less than a yearā kinda thing. Things will move quickly between you two, and others will notice how fast your relationship gets serious. One of you might come across to others as somewhat controlling in day-to-day life - perhaps being picky about your household decisions. But this gets balanced out because the other partner brings a really practical, steady approach to life - they're probably the one who makes sure bills get paid on time and keeps your shared life running smoothly. After the initial adjustment period, people will likely view you as one of those couples who, despite their differences, actually work well together because you each bring something the other needs.āāāāāāāāāāāāāāāā
hey theree, i am not dead. college is just beating my ass lmao. letās hope i sort things out before the end of this week ~ my priority is answering the remaining asks the moment i deal with this.
HeyĀ theeere,Ā nameāsĀ C.Ā IāmĀ venusĀ dominant,Ā entpĀ (8w7),Ā soĀ donātĀ beĀ surprisedĀ toĀ seeĀ moreĀ inclinationĀ towardsĀ romanceĀ tarotĀ readings.Ā EnglishĀ isĀ noĀ myĀ firstĀ language!Ā SoĀ bareĀ w/Ā me.Ā IĀ loveĀ fashion,Ā tarotĀ andĀ movies.Ā IĀ alsoĀ enjoyĀ learningĀ aboutĀ mbtiĀ (Ā thoĀ iāmĀ noĀ expertĀ ). My reading style is straightforward and direct without overly spiritual language. I reserve the right to decline any reading that conflicts with my personal ethics, values or energy. If you bark I bark back.Ā
WHATĀ IĀ DO:
General,Ā love & personalĀ growth.Ā I encourage open-minded and respectful personal questions that don't overstep ethical or personal boundaries. BasicĀ astrologyĀ birthĀ chartĀ questions.
WHATĀ IĀ DONāTĀ DO:
MedicalĀ orĀ legalĀ personal themed readings or advice.Ā AllowĀ minors orĀ obsessiveĀ people (I don't answer questions that feel invasive, repetitive or based on unhealthy attachments & since i always do an energy check i tend to find this out). No third-party readings: I won't dive into others thoughts or feelings without their consent. No contact questions (to be more specific, I won't answer questions about reconciling with people who may have explicitly cut ties, blocked or separated from you). Free readings unless itās a tarot game. No extreme predictive timelines with specific timing questions. Timing in tarot can be too fluid. Yes or no questions now since tarot gives more nuanced answers to provide clarity beyond a simple yes or no. No hexes, curses or spellwork.