My Therapist: “taylor Swift’s Cryptic Easter Eggs Aren’t Real, They Can’t Hurt You”

Besides Track 12, the funniest part is Kevin McHale (Dianna’s ex costar and friend) liking this tweet

if folkore and evermore didn't exist, i wouldn't be here as a taylor swift stan and a gaylor today

Gabrielle Chung after posting that article on 3/11/21 11:13 PM:

posted when?

HAPPY GAY SUNDAY EVERYONE!

YEE HAW 🤠

SR, can I ask you something? Do you ever feel like you would be glad if you knew for sure Taylor was no longer with Karlie? Like if for example Spade resurfaced and informed you that Taylor couldn't stand Karlie's mess and had decided to break it off. Are there times when you feel like it would be better for all, Taylor and us, if Karlie was out of the picture? Cause I'm embarrassed to admit it, but I do. I can't believe I've reached this point after supporting their romance for years, but I do.

I do not even follow Karlie anymore, because what she represents is too toxic for me. So, yes, selfishly, it would be easier for me to enjoy Taylor's journey if it did not involve Karlie. But, I don't wish it upon them to split. Their relationship is just that. Theirs.

It is interesting timing that you sent this ask, though. I recently discovered the Sam Kerr/Kristie Mewis relationship. Two of the best womens soccer players in the world, who are very open, and very much in love. I highly recommend you follow them. They are so adorable. This blog @newbiesquadgoals is a good one to get you started.

What struck me this week though, is that Sam and Kristie reminded me of why I fell down the Kaylor rabbit hole back in late 2014. It is just so beautiful to observe two people so happy, so free, and so in love. That is what Kaylor showed publicly back in 2014.

As for ♠️, I said to a mutual the other day, that if Kaylor is going to stay private, I wish ♠️ would stop back and somehow let us know this (via a riddle or some other way). My hunch is that we will see Kaylor together in 2022, again, and that they will both be free. But, I don't expect them to do a 180 on Taylor's stance of being fiercely protective of her family. So I do not have any expectations of them showing they are a couple. Just that we will see them spend time together publicly.

You said: "I can't believe I've reached this point after supporting their romance for years, but I do."

I hear you, anon. As much time as I have put into supporting them, I cannot believe I do not even follow Karlie anymore.

“the grammys are a joke to the music industry and are just generally very elitist” and “if  taylor doesn’t win aoty tonight i will throw a chair out a window” are statements i’ve learned to allow to coexist 

This is a me appreciation post. Shout out to me for fighting through the fog and emptiness to do what I love. Shout out to me even when I can’t do anything at all. Shout out to me for continuing to be kind to others even when it’s exhausting. Shout to me for refusing to fall to my dark thoughts.

If you reblog this, it’s about you now <3

Oh, it’s gonna be a party on this hellsite tonight

THERE.

FIXED. IT.

ISN'T. THAT. BETTER.

I’m really happy for Taylor. But I’m increasingly feeling like she’s chosen the closet life for the near future, or even long term. Same for Karlie. Whether or not they are together (which has honestly become irrelevant lately). Her giving Joe a shoutout at this career defining history making moment is really a bit much. (Just objectively speaking. It doesn’t bother me personally). And Aaron’s IG post giving him this much credit is agenda-y. Because I think there is no way Toe is a real couple or he somehow is a genius songwriter, Aaron must have done it to protect/help Taylor. But why is he trying so hard to help her secure her closet? Maybe she realized coming out isn’t worth it, because she loves making music in her current state (massive fans, focus on the music and not her personal life) so much and doesn’t want to risk it being taken away? At this point, I don’t think lying about her rs even bothers her that much. Because that’s a way for her to protect her real life with loved ones. What’s a 5 sec shoutout compared to living in peace? Just very disturbing to us fans. Tho.

I was shocked by the Joe mention at such an important moment, but she also backed herself into a corner by insisting on the WB thing. She’s also shared her an award win speech with CH before - another bearding travesty. It’s not unprecedented, just weird.

The aggressive bearding gives her more privacy, less salacious headlines, and maybe most importantly, obscures her work/life for everyone.

It used to be that we could listen to her album and have an idea of what was going on, knowing she’d written it relatively recently and given her history of aligning her work with her life. Starting with folklore, she’s given lyrics that conflict with her public persona big-time. She’s setting fans up for the idea that you can never tell the real story because she can write from any perspective at any time. Plausible deniability. It’s honestly brilliant and it’s why I really struggle to interpret her folklore-evermore.

I get it. I’m just sad because I’m tired of the asterisks on all her accomplishments. 

Look at how the damn headline for HER MAJOR, MAJOR, MAJOR WIN and the highlighted portion of her speech are about her fake boyfriend.

They made it about a man that is not even involved. It’s really fucking lame.

Please compare this to Beyonce’s headline by the same publication:

The injustice of it all??????