Oh Dear

Because we would be happy eating at the same three places and nobody else likes to do that so instead we ask them to choose.

The people who ‘don’t care where we eat’ also happen to be the pickiest

Though, I'm still figuring out where I am on the spectrum I felt like I "found myself" when I read about demiromantic people. I really got that "Maybe I'm not broken after all"- feeling.

It’s was a very ‘oh’ moment for me. I almost felt silly that I didn’t recognize it earlier. But I tend to be really good at denial. I still have a little trouble with romantic orientation, it remains a very nature vs nurture problem for me. A recent terminology update gave me platonic relationships. Something I hadn't considered but the more I find the idea appealing the more I accept being aromantic.

Ahhhhhhhh

i made some patterns to convert 1-tile stone paths to stepping stones!

You need to find someone,” they say. “There is someone out there for you to make you happy!” They promise. “Look for your other half,” they chant. Am I half a person? Am I not enough as I am? Can I not depend on myself for my own happiness? I can enjoy music on my own. I can laugh and sing and dance on my own. “Poor thing, still alone?” They murmur. I don’t always want to be alone, you know. But I know I’m not incomplete. I am happy being who I am, and only I drive myself to be a better version of myself. I have found solace in the silence, and peace in my quiet thoughts. I wonder if the ones who beg me to find someone never had that, and I am sorry for them.

finish-the-hat-george (via wnq-writers)

Having fun with my button maker

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