For 6 months I struggled to manifest my SP. I would always practice affirmations, saying them very anxiously but I never felt like I was in the relationship. I would say my intentions, but they always felt super repetitive. Saying affirmations, intentions and scripting didn't change how I felt on the inside. I spent thousands of dollars on coaching and psychic readings. And I Always asked my friends for advice about my situation with my Sp. I was constantly looking for results outside of myself. I spent HOURS obsessing over YouTube videos and reading Reddit post. I looked up living in the end and also acting as if, but I never put in the actual work until eventually I just got tired of being the victim. I started learning about living in the end. But when I practiced it I took it literal! I would ask myself...who would I be and how would I act if I was with my specific person right now? Well.... I know I would stop complaining to my friends about it. So that's exactly what I did. I told myself that I was going to stop reaching out to my friends for advice, and I was going to stop complaining to them. I also wouldn't be watching YouTube videos every night about manifesting a specific person. So I unsubscribed to every manifestation video that I followed on YouTube. I did the same thing on Instagram, and I actually uninstalled the Reddit app for a while. This was just so I wouldn't be tempted to search how to Manifest your sp. (I spent months researching how to manifest a specific person, but I never put in the actual work to do it. It's addicting to learn the information. But the information is not gonna help you unless you do the actual work)
At night I would hold myself and I would imagine my SP holding me. It felt good and it relieved my anxiety. I would also imagine my sp telling me that he loved me. And in the beginning it didn't feel that believable, but after I practiced it- it felt more and more real. Each time that I did it, I would do it more throughout my day. After I was done practicing it for three days, I really put it into work. In the morning when I would wake up I would wrap my arms around myself and imagine having a conversation with my SP. I would imagine him telling me how beautiful I was, and I would imagine him asking me how I slept. I would reply to him in my head and tell him that I slept good, and then I would have a conversation with him in my head about what I had planned for the day. And then when I get out of bed. I would imagine myself telling him that I was going to get ready for work. When I would go downstairs and make breakfast I would imagine that he's there helping me make breakfast. Also when I was eating my breakfast I would imagine that he's eating breakfast with me. I would imagine him telling me to have a good day at work, then in my head I would imagine saying goodbye to him and telling him that I would be home when I got home. Throughout my day, I would go to work and I would just imagine the things that I would do with my sp when I got home from work. Like watching a movie, or thinking about what our double dates would look etc. when I would get home from work I would imagine that my SP was at home waiting for me. I would imagine him giving me a hug. And I would imagine him asking me how my day was. I would have this inner conversation about how my day is an I would respond to him in my head. would make dinner and imagine that he's eating with me. After I would eat dinner I would lay in bed and watch Netflix movies, I would imagine that he's there watching Netflix movies with me. I would hold myself again and imagine that he's the one holding me. I would feel his presence with me.
Randomly, When I would drive around in my car, I would imagine that my SP is in the passenger seat, and I would imagine a different scenario where we're driving to my family members house for a holiday. And I would imagine that he was going to meet them for the first time. To make a long story short I would just visualize what it would be like if we lived together. I would visualize what our relationship would look like if we lived together. One of my favorite things to do was to go on Zillow and look at houses, and I would imagine that We were looking at houses to move into together. It was really fun for me.
When Doing these visualizations, I generally stopped caring what was going on in the 3-D. Because I was convinced in my inner world that we were together. And at that point I generally didn't care if it happened or not. After fully saturating my mind with these visualizations, it only took three days for him to conform. He started to become clingy and always wanting to be around me 24/7. After a week of doing this. He asked me to be in a committed relationship with him. I got what I wanted. It doesn't take that long to get what you want. When you are fully living in the end it happens really fast. It’s unbelievable !
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If I had to give young girls 5 pieces of advice, it would be:
1.
Do not be friends with people you do not like. Evaluate your friends. Just because you’ve been with them for years, does not mean you actually like them. Think how you would think of them if you two just met. Think about how they make you feel, and if they uplift you, support you, and you have fun with them. Make sure your friends have no jealously towards you, or any nastiness. (You don’t want to hear this, but your mom is probably right about who are your true friends.)
2.
Girls under 18.. Do not get involved with boys, especially physically.. I understand hanging out, and talking. You can enjoy life and the entire high school experience, I’m not shaming ANYONE for their desicions, but be very, very selective, and very responsible if you decide to do things (physically) with anybody. You never know boys true intentions, especially ones in high school, and I would tell every young girl to save the trouble. Flirt a little, have a little crush, it’s cute, it’s fun, but anything more and you will be suffering from heartbreak, & in the end you could get a lil boy crazy. Getting in a relationship could also mess up future opportunities, and sadly, even your dreams. (Harsh reality, but you may feel too tied down to go after what you really want in life.) In a couple years, you will be very proud of yourself, and grateful that you stayed single and did not give unworthy boys your valuable time or energy.
3.
Girls still in high school, If you choose to work.. Get a part time job. Do not dedicate a ton of your time to work. You have ALL of your life to work. Find out what your true interests and hobbies really are, work on yourself, and what you love to do. Experiment with different things to find out what you really want to do. I worked 5 days a week throughout most of my time in high school, and I wish I didn’t. I wish I enjoyed being that young more, and didn’t dedicate so much of that period in my life to a job I got absolutely nothing out of. So if you can, do NOT force yourself to work a lot of hours, and if you are working, try to save at least a little bit.
4.
If you have a dream, go after it now. If you want to be a youtuber? Start now. If you want to be on tiktok? Start it now. If you want to be a doctor/nurse/vet? Start working on your grades and figuring out your plan now. There is no better time than right now, and your future self will be ETERNALLY grateful you did this! You will have a head start, that is so beneficial, and you can get so far so fast like this.
5.
Have fun. LOVE YOURSELF, a LOT. Be the it girl. Be the girl in charge, don’t let anyone tell you you arent everything and more! Try to make new friends. Do things you enjoy. Learn new things about yourself. Read more books, go to more dances at school, more games at school, kickbacks, whatever it may be. Spend a lot of time with your family and your parents, especially if you’ll be leaving after high school or going off to a different college.
I hope this was helpful! Ultimately, do whatever your heart desires, but this is what I would tell myself a couple years ago.
the consumerist mentality
why would we struggle? we found out about the infinite power all of us have within ourselves so why are you still having problems? why would you still care about the 3d? why would you get anxious or nervous about the external world when YOU are the creator of all of this?
the house you are living in, the way your parents treat you, the clothes you are dressing, the hair you have, the body you so used to complain about THEY ARE ALL YOUR CREATION!!!!!!! and the same way you created those and accepted the fact that you and your life are like that YOU CAN CHANGE EVERYTHING OVERNIGHT AND ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE ALREADY THE PERSON YOU DREAM TO BE!!!!!!
sick of your reality? shift.
sick of your hair color? manifest it to be another color
everything is easy like that AND WHY DONT YOU ACCEPT THAT EVERYTHING IS THAT EASY??????????
you want the face you photoshopped to visualize as your dream face and have on your lockscreen? YOU HAVE IT
want to be the best kpop idol in the whole world? the biggest the industry has ever saw? DAMN GIRL YOU GOT IT
want to date that famous guy you love so much????? HE’S YOURS ALREADY
so again WHY ARE YOU ANXIOUS WHY ARE YOU STRUGGLING WHY ARE YOU ACTING LIKE YOU ARE A VICTIM WHEN NOW YOU CAN HAVE EVERYTHING YOU WANT RIGHT NOW BECAUSE NOW YOU KNOW YOU ARE GOD??????????
everything is so easy, DO NOT let anyone and even your current mindset tell you otherwise, YOU ARE GOD! YOU WANT IT YOU GOT IT! you are more powerful then you can ever think about and you don’t need to move one finger to have anything because your biggest treasure is your imagination.
imagine it, have it. that’s all.
what did you do to perfect your sc so fast omg??
Okay so here’s the highly anticipated explanation of how I, Hera Huxtable, acquired my self concept within 24 hours. It’s a bit of a personal story tied with past association so if you’ve followed me for some time you’ve likely heard of these two and I swear they’re both relevant to my self concept story. I've never explained it to this extent though.
To vaguely discuss the past association I connected this instance of acquiring my self concept to the time I decided I was that bitch out of the blue and persisted in that assumption (I can tell you wholeheartedly that this is the reason why I have never struggled with being insecure physically) but I'll talk a little more about this later.
Moving onto the personal story I discovered the law of assumption around late July/early August right and I kinda sorta knew about the God thing but hadn’t really dived deep into it. This also came to be around the time my best friend and I came to the decision to no longer be friends. When we split I took it quite hard and I made the decision to give myself 24 hours to cry it out be sad about it and move on (it ended up happening within 5 hours by the way) which was a new thing for me because this was way back when I repulsively resonated with the cancer sun title (being an emotional crybaby). And you know what happened when I established that time limit for myself? I snapped. For the first time I simply decided, “you know what? I’m not gonna let myself feel miserable over this any longer and nothing is gonna make me feel this shitty ever again” and with that decision also came “I'm done being a whiny ass victim and I'm done being someone I don't wanna be”. That same week was when I immersed myself in the law of assumption and started learning more by reading Neville’s lectures and like I said I was still relatively new to the God thing and I didn’t know how literal it was, I just knew you could manifest absolutely anything and with that knowledge my peace of mind grew. It was very comforting knowing that I could always get my best friend back if I ever wanted to, which sped up the healing process and I also mentioned that as my self concept increased more and more by the day I eventually lost absolute interest in getting them back and I moved on completely. That same week I also learned about EIYPO and had to come to terms that it was my fault and I was the one who manifested us not being friends anymore all the while it made little to no sense to me because WHY would I want to not have my best friend anymore? But it didn’t matter whether it made sense or not I held myself accountable for it and accepted that I was the root of the issue and the fact that I could also undo it made it less of a big deal to me so it was like ok fine I did it whatever. (You’ll see why I mentioned this bit as well shortly)
That day I decided I had enough of the victim mentality and because of that I have never dealt with spirals, impatience, insecurities or any of that unfavorable stuff. It was just like “yeah I'm that bitch and I always get what I want idc about anything else I'm not accepting shit I don’t want and don’t deserve from here on out”. And of course there were instances that challenged my self concept but I knew better than to let anything from the 3D matter or define me which goes back to that whole confidence angle I mentioned at the beginning because listen I had people that had something to say about my confidence but I never cared and never paid attention so that’s why self concept is so reminiscent of how I picked up my confidence, it was just deciding, persisting and placing myself on a pedestal. You focus on the new version of you that you want to be and you turn your attention away from everything that dares challenge or question that.
If you ever spiral after reading this, I advise you to try a similar approach to my story. Take advantage of all the intense emotions that you’re feeling, decide that it's the last time you will ever feel that way and use it as motivation to sever ties with that old you. See that person spiraling as an image of self that you’ve had enough of. Decide that you will no longer identify with that non serving version of yourself that is quite literally interfering with the version of you that CAN get what they want. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: it always starts with you. You have to be the one to put your foot down and finally decide to stop yourself from continuing to be the source of your own sabotage because there will never be anyone to blame and there will never be anyone to change but self. For once you just need to hold yourself accountable no matter how uncomfortable it may feel because at the end of the day this is something you’re doing for YOURSELF and no one else. Remember that before you make the decision to wallow in the victim mentality once more, my love. I know it can be mildly uncomfortable territory to call yourself out like that especially when you're accustomed to comforting yourself by thinking that the world is the problem instead of you but I promise you that when you choose to make that decision for yourself, you will look back and wonder why you didn't do it sooner. It's one of the best decisions I have ever made for myself and I can assure you it will most definitely be the same for you too ଘ(੭ˊᵕˋ)੭
if anybody else can do it, then why can’t you?
there is one correct answer, if anybody else can do it, THEN YOU CAN TOO ! you’re as much of a God as they are, even more powerful if you believe so. you weren’t specifically picked by the law and it will say “this one, the law won’t work for her” NO???? THE LAW WORKS FOR EVERYONE, NO ONE IS AN EXCEPTION ! YOU. ARE. GOD. YOUR WORDS IS GOSPEL. WHATEVER YOU SAY GOES. YOU CONTROL EVERYTHING.
so if you’re jealous because this one person can manifest a whole appearance change in 1 min, YOU CAN DO THAT TOO ! if this person can enter the void in 30 seconds, YOU CAN DO THAT TOO ! if this person manifested their super duper popular celeb sp, HELL YEAH YOU CAN DO THAT TOO !
you have to understand how powerful you are, babe. you are more than your doubts, intrusive thoughts, and everything that bothers you. always believe that if anybody can do it, then you can too because everyone is you pushed out.
also remember that everyone’s journey is different but still equally beautiful :) so i want you to get up, realize the power you hold and manifest those desires. you can do it, of course you can!
1. practice guitar for 10 minutes
2. literally only practice guitar cause thats the only thing i can think of rn
3. practice singing when my parents are out of the house, there is no way i would want to be caught singing while my parents are home + i need to practice for my audition
4. read the nature book mrs. c reccomened
5. research on things i can do for my garden club
6. initiate conversation with people
7. fill up my water bottle twice (32 + 32 = 64 so 8 cups babey)
I ADORE MY LIFE SO MUCH , I MEAN WHO WOULDN'T? I JUST WAKE UP EVERY MORNING KNOWING THAT I HAVE ALL OF MY DESIRES LET THE UNIVERSE DO THE THINGS FOR ME, OFF TOPIC BUT PRETTY PRIVILEGE DOES EXIST AND IM HAVING A BLAST <3
I STARTED THINKING AS GOD AND IN SECONDS MY MINDSET SHIFTED, LIKE I WASNT FEELING OVERWHELMED ANYMORE, I DIDNT NOTICE ANY DOUBTS AND I KNEW FOR SURE THAT IT WOULD HAPPEN BECAUSE IM GOD AND I SAID SO OMG WTH
THINGS CAN CHANGE INSTANTLY ONCE YOU JUST SHIFT INTO THAT MINDSET! you don’t even need to get rid of limiting beliefs literally just SHIFTING and forgetting all that behind you is enough
𝟎 𝐄𝐅𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐓 𝐎𝐍𝐋𝐘 𝐂𝐇𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐄𝐍𝐆𝐄
this is for all the people who procrastinate, worry, stress or overconsume and then get confused all over again. this challenge is simple, easy and straightforward (exactly how the law is) want to straighten out that self concept? this is what you wanna do:
🔑 : the key of this challenge is making minimum efforts to gain maximum results
first step. . .
SELF CONCEPT
self concept is so important, and although its not a must. you will really reap the benefits of prioritising your self concept, you will feel so much more confident and secure in your manifestations and also outside in your general life.
• “i don’t need to do anything to manifest”
• “everything is mine without me lifting a finger”
• “the 3d naturally conforms to me instantly”
• “it’s crazy how easy law of assumption is for me”
• “all my doubts literally disappear in a millisecond”
• “i cant help but notice how amazing life has been recently”
• “i never worry, nor stress. i let go of all things that don’t serve me”
• “why would i worry when i know that everything i already want is mine?”
• “why am i becoming so much more prettier now?”
• “why am i living life so effortlessly now?”
• “why is everything so quickly and easy for me all of a sudden?”
these are just a few affs you can choose. don’t have to ofc, you can repeat them, dance to them, affirm whilst going to sleep, affirm when you wake up..WHATEVER! do whatever with these affirmations.
SELF CONCEPT VAUNT
“it’s amazing how much i’ve progressed. my life has took a turn to a complete 180 ° and i can finally say that i am proud to be me. i am proud of myself for changing my mindset and beliefs, i am a powerful manifestor and i am the creator of my reality. everything i want instantly conforms in my 3D. doubts? non-existent. i’ve come to the point in my life where doubts never interfere with my goals.
second step . . .
LIVE IN THE END
aka..the best part. to live in the end is pretty much simple; living in the end is going on your day knowing that everything you want..is already here!
so..if you already knew you literally have the best self concept in the world, where would your thoughts be? (this is where affirmations come in handy) or you could simply make up affirmations on the spot.
🔑 : living in the end is not “trying” its embodying. so you are no longer TRYING to manifest a better self concept you HAVE a better self concept. so THINK like you have a better self concept.
THAT’S LITERALLY IT!!!
so to simplify it even more: live as though your self concept is already perfect.