Psychology says, when your brain hears something over and over... It starts believing THAT something is true.
This is called the "illusory truth effect." Be careful what you feed your brain.
“Allaah hates a rude, foul mouthed person.”
The Prophet, Imam Bukhari’s Book of Muslim Manners (no. 464)
Having a supportive partner can literally change your life.
Just remember that Jannah is your ultimate goal. So if you can do that many good deeds.. then at least try staying away from the bad deeds and if you do slip then do know that Allah’s doors of repentance are always open.
“Then, indeed your Lord, to those who have done wrong out of ignorance and then repent after that and correct themselves - indeed, your Lord, thereafter, is Forgiving and Merciful.”
— Holy Qur’an, an-Nahl 119
Don’t lose a part of your religion just to please people. Don’t make compromises in your Deen. Don’t drop your deen for people who will be against you on the day of resurrection.
Tough times always teach you valuable lessons.
Al-Miqdam ibn Ma’di reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When a man loves his brother, let him tell him that he loves him.”
Sunan Abī Dāwūd 5124
We don't meet people by accident, they are meant to cross our path for a reason. Some are blessings some are lessons