the older i get the more i realize how unimportant it is to tell people my business
If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it! Change the meanings you give to it!
Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every servant will be resurrected upon the way that they died.”
Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2878
People don't always need advice. Sometimes all they really need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand them.
“The planet does not need more ‘successful people.’ The planet desperately needs more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers and lovers of all kinds.”
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Narrated Abū Mūsa رضي الله عنه:
Some people asked Allaah's Messenger ﷺ, "Whose Islām is the best (i.e. who is a very good Muslim)?" He replied, "One who avoids harming the Muslims with his tongue and hands."
{Sahīh al-Bukhāri. Hadeeth No.11. Trans by: Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan}
Just remember that Jannah is your ultimate goal. So if you can do that many good deeds.. then at least try staying away from the bad deeds and if you do slip then do know that Allah’s doors of repentance are always open.
Some people want success in their life but when they hear the Adhan and it says ‘hayya alal falah’ (come to success), they ignore it.