btw when a person tells you they usually don’t cum or have a hard time with it, pushing them to cum (“come on, baby, cum for me!” “are you close?” “i want to make you cum” etc) makes it less likely for them to cum and will in fact make them feel very pressured and have less fun because they now feel like you’re not going to have fun if they don’t cum.
the goal for sex isn’t to cum. the goal of sex is to enjoy yourselves. you can have fun without orgasms. orgasms are a bonus. stop treating sex like it’s not good enough if your partner doesn’t climax.
“Just a moment, dear, people are talking.”
“Am I not people?”
“Would you like to be people right now?”
“… no, I don’t think I wanna be people right now, Mistress.”
“Very well, my sweet pet. Would you like to sit on Mistress’ lap quietly while she talks to people?”
“…”
“What a lovely obedient pet.”
i'm a good dog. a well-trained dog. i sit so prettily on the floor to wait for you to come home from work. you have such a stressful job ! it's only fitting that you get to come home and let it out on me.
you get home and sit yourself down on the couch. you let me sit down near your feet, close enough that your hand can go to my head and stroke your fingers through my hair. i lean into the touch, so different from how you hurt me. not that i'd ever complain.
your hand moves, holding your palm up near my face, and you smile so sweetly at me, asking me to come closer. i know what's coming, but i don't stop myself from placing my cheek so gently against the palm of your hand.
slap.
you hit me. hard. my head rocks back and i have to catch myself with my hands to keep from falling to the ground. but when i look up at you, you're smiling sweetly again.
you ask if that hurt. you apologize. you hold your hand out again. i place my cheek against your palm.
slap.
again and again. you coo at me, tell me you're so sorry, you just can't help it. my face looks too pretty, my bruises have faded too much. you just have to give me another black eye. and every time you slap, i find myself placing my bruised cheek back down against your hand.
i'm nothing if not a well-trained dog.
Apologetic cnc. "I'm sorry, I'm so fucking sorry" as he forces another inch into you, feeling too good for him to stop.
Hey fellow painsluts and other masochistic subbies... I just wanna share something that was helpful for me. Maybe it'll resonate with some of you too...
But like... its okay to not enjoy pain sometimes
And what I mean by that is recieving pain is not a passive role
It takes a lot of focus and mental energy to process that kind of intense stimuli. Learning how to translate pain into pleasure is a skill. Its something you develop over time
So if you're ever in a scene, and the pain your recieving is just... pain... its okay to stop, take a break, negotiate a different kind of scene , or do whatever you need to do
Take your time learning to process pain, and learning what kind of pain you like. You are still valid as a sub and as a masochist no matter where you are on that personal journey
Tiger stripes
puppy needs a muzzle.
not that he’s a danger, no. sweet thing couldn’t hurt a fly if he tried. no, it’s a comfort to him. like a blanket draped over his head to dull his senses and put him back where he belongs. a reminder that good dogs don’t speak and good boys listen.
a promise that he’ll get what he needs, and he won’t have to ask for it.
so he cuddles on the couch and he helps make dinner and he watches a movie, all with his gag. just to keep his head blissfully empty. and his cock rock hard.
good boys listen. good boys get what they want. good boys get their wrists tied down and cocks sucked after they’ve spent all day behaving in their muzzle. after all, a good boy gets his reward. and if he behaves while he gets his cock sucked, then a very good pet gets to pin down his owner and breed them full and dripping.
if he’s good. he usually is.
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put a collar on me so when you're fucking into me the bell jingles. move me how you want it when I give you head/eat you out so the bell jingles. Make me squirm so it jingles.
Condition me to get soaked when the bell jingles. Make me associate that little noise with pleasure
puppy that wont stop talking human words so i put a bone in his mouth and start touching his puppy parts. then once i take the bone out he'll be too stupid to talk back anymore, and i can put the bone in his dog cunt instead.