Daddy Issues - Blog Posts
Real!
I love it when a perverted older man gives me attention and sexualizes me it makes me feel so special !! ㅤ♡ྀི
Yesssss please!!
i need a older man to let me sit on his lap and give him sweet kisses on his cheek.
guys....who said this...
i need an older man to baby me and praise me sooo bad :3
Reallllll I hate my daddy issues..but sometimes I love them.
trying to beat the daddy issues allegations, but i crave tight hugs from men with big arms, need male validation to feel good about myself, and cry whenever a man raises his voice at me :(
I don’t want to be a disappointment anymore
My dad loves screaming at me because of things that aren’t my fault </3
I used to think you were a smart man
now I’m not so sure
in fact
I think you told us several times
when I was younger
that you were anything but
you scared me too much to test that
I hope the people who live in our old house
look at the dent in the freezer
that you nearly broke your foot making
because you wished you could have done
it to me instead
and wonder how it got there
and soon enough they will discover
the lines I scratched into the wood
into the walls
little traces of anger
it fills every support beam,
every wall,
every floorboard like rot
spreading
consuming
devouring
guys I js cut of my dad let's celebrate😍
am i bisexual
or
am i lesbian with severe daddy issues who craves male validation
me if u even care ྀི:
Me: existing
Also me: suddenly gets hit with the thought that I am my father's daughter and I will slowly break and destroy everything I love due to my crippling anger issues
Romantisized Daddy issues/father complex.
No, daddy issues isn't liking to call someone 'daddy' in Bed, thats a kink and not a issue.
The father complex is a trauma response, so please stop romantisizing it out of respect.
Its much more than the liking in older men.
There are 3 Types:
Fearful - avoidant means that affected people avoid getting close to anyone. If they are in a relationship, they tend to run away from challenges. They struggle with intimacy.
Anxious - preoccupied means that affected ones are scared to be left, ofting causing relationship anxiety. Its common that they are really clingy and feel unsettled if they aren't with their partner.
Dismissive - avoidant means that affected ones have heavy trust issues, avoiding conservations and being scared of getting hurt again or to depend on anyone else than themselve.
Lets go over to common symptoms, the type of a father complex clearly depends on the symptoms.
Possessiveness & clingy behaviour.
Overabundance of love & assurance.
Using Sex to feel loved.
Dating (older) men that make you feel protected.
Being afraid to be alone. > jumping from one relationship into another.
Choosing repetitively abusive men.
Attachment issues.
Being afraid to be vulnerable.
Trust issues.
Not setting boundaries because you're scared they will leave if you say "no."
Idealizing your partner.
the father complex often comes with..
Depression
Persistent anger issues
Low self-esteem
Stress
Worry
Anxiety
The father complex is treatable, search for a therapist and analyse your struggles. If your partner is okay with that, maybe even consider couple therapy.
~ Mmmhh that feels so good ~
~ Careful, Daddy! Please be gentle… ~
If daddy issues make you a people pleaser and mommy issues make you, like, a sociopath
What the hell does that make him?
It's not that i don't love you.
It's about the way that i never knew what fatherly love was even tho he was always there in my life, it's the fact that the first memory i have is of me crying because i was in pain and hiding it from my dad because even at 5 i knew better then to expect anything other then anger and disgust from him
It's not that i don't love you.
It's the summer that my first love, the boy i considered my brother and the only person to ever truly know me told me he didn't want to be friends anymore because i was too much to handle
It's not that i don't love you.
It's the fact that after meeting my dad the only way my mum could find happiness was in the bottom of a bottle
It's not that i don't love you.
It's about the way I've never felt truly worthy of love and happiness, it's about how the only way i can feel anything is thought a blade or a bottle or drugs
It's not that i don't love you, it's that i do
INSPIRED BY THE POEM "IT'S NOT THAT I DON'T LOVE YOU" BY a-political-outcast
"I just wanna be one of your girls tonight.."
My dad…who walked out on our family…sent me this today
Do you ever just get a really unnerving feeling that your father (who is dead) isn’t really dead? SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME IM BEING DEULU I KNOW IT BUT NOT REALLY (cuz of the gut feeling)
My dad is dead.
I talk about it pretty often but not as someone who's greveing, as a fact.
And I think that might hurt more. Haven't been able to process it, I still think he faked his death to get away from us. But my dad, an alcoholic and liar that I loved very much died.
Also I'm 90% sure he killed himself, he was told that he would die if he kept drinking and he lied about it to everyone so he could keep drinking.
by this logic, what happened to barty crouch jr.?
sirius and regulus
Mom, please
I want to stop holding back
I want to stop biting my lip
Unleash me like the beast this house has created
I don’t want to tell myself no, just not to escalate it, just not to add more to your plate
I want to strike
Mom, please
His words are killing you
I'm sorry you're so unhappy with your life, but that doesn’t mean you have to make mine more miserable than it already is!
i want to be hugged.
i want someone to stroke my hair.
i want someone to tell me they’re proud of me.
i want someone to hold my hand in public.
i want someone to tell me everything’s gonna be okay.
i want someone to softly caress my skin.
i want someone to teach me their hobbies.
i want someone to explain to me stuff i don’t understand.
i want someone to give me forehead kisses.
i just want to feel safe, for once.
Haven't been as active on here but I'm back and looking for people to talk to!
SO if you're a cute girl/teen girl/lonely girl who wants a friend/bored in your life/relationship and want someone to talk and be friends with who's sweet/caring but also very often horny af, hmu🥰🥰 will show myself on snap
Only guys who wanna trade, otherwise sorry not interested🙃
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Snap: phantomlight100
if you look like this, for the love of God DM me
i’m backkk
My secret toy Pt. 1
Since I was chatting about it earlier and decided to watch some old videos on my lunch break, I thought I'd post about the best sexual encounter(s) I ever had with the cutest, sweetest little 18 year old.
This was a few years ago, my gf at the time was living a few states over and I had just gotten a new job where I lived as a manager of a chain restaurant.
I immediately honed in on this very cute girl; later found out she had just turned 18 and had a shitty relationship with some asshole. She also had a tiny body, tattoos, freshly pierced medium-sized tits, brown hair, and the best ass I've ever seen.
We began talking, and it quickly became very flirty and intimate. She would come to me in my office to talk to me whenever she could, on breaks, between rushes, etc. We quickly became very close friends and would spend a lot of time together at work, and pretty soon she was sneaky calling me daddy and touching me discretely, and there was a LOT going on over snapchat.
She had a VERY baby-like personality. Loved to be babied, cared for, very ddlg and age regressed, which i think is where I get my caring, sweet-dom personality from.
But she was still very naughty, I remember sneaking her to an area where there were no cameras and making out/fingering her in her uniform, wishing we could do more but sadly never did at work. But we would close together a lot, and i remember her making excuses to stay until I left, sitting in one of our cars long after we left the building to kiss and touch each other before we went our separate ways... until one night we didn't 🤭
Like for part 2, the first time we hooked up😘 Trying to keep it as close to true events as possible, but I can add roughly what our conversations were if anyone wants that kind of story. Let me know(:
yes pls🥰
you don’t want me, dating me requires being both my bf and my dad
Since nobody is chatting with me on my lunch break, and tumlr tags seem to be dying left and right, I'm left to go peruse what's in my phone.
Luckily I've got plenty of things to look at, including a cute little 18 year old toy I used to hook up with when I was long distance dating another girl some years back. I've told the story before on an old blog, but if anyone wants to hear some of my memories with her, send me an ask and I'll gladly oblige(: I've got plenty of stories😘