β Neville Goddard, Feeling Is the Secret (1944)
Recently a sweet Anon asked me if I'd like to convert some items from @serenity-cc's amazing Year Of The Rabbit collection and I really really liked these two dresses, so here they are! π±
The dresses are top-only ('cause that's something new I've learned how to do and with a little better joints than usual thanks to @platinumaspiration β₯) so you can pair them with whichever shoes you'd like! π¦
Also there are two hairstyles by @imvikai cause I thought they were cute! π¦
Magnolia dress (AF, both morphs, ten swatches, 3,329 polys)
Jing v2 (AF, both morphs, ten swatches, 1,949 polys)
Miyu hair (AF-CU, 4 colors binned, animated, 3,158 polys)
Hana hair (AF-TF, 4 colors binned, animated, 3,918 polys)
Everything's compressed, enjoy! β₯
download (sfs) // alt download (mediafire)
β€· warning: very long post β¦ read more β΅
πππππ ππ ππππππππ:
β’ what are states? + examples
β’ how to know what state youβre in?
β’ how to switch states? + steps
β’ neville on states
β ππππ πππ ππππππ Ι
A state is your beliefs, your attitude and where you dwell. Thoughts and actions are determined by your state. There are infinite states. Everyone, including you, is always in a state, whether it be desired or not. But remember that you can ALWAYS change states no matter what. In fact, states change often within a day! Keep in mind, states are NOT emotions! You donβt need emotions to manifest, you just need to be in the state that matches you having your desire. Lastly, techniques don't manifest but your state does.
β ππππππππ Ι
- state of love β state of hate
- state of wealth β state of poverty
- state of health β state of sickness
- state of stupidity β state of intelligence
- state of being married β state of being divorced
- etc β¦
β πππ ππ ππππ ππππ ππππππ πππβππ ππ Ι
Look at your 3D reality; external reality. What do you see? Whatever you see, whether itβs undesired or desired, is your state. Use your physical reality (3D) as a guide to see what states you are in. You can also check your inner conversations to see what state it implies.
Letβs identify your state as of right now regarding your desire. I want you to be completely honest β donβt be defensive and donβt make any excuses: What are your thoughts usually? Are you the person that has your desires and naturally thinks like: "I am so grateful for having what I want, etc." OR are you the person that is trying to get their desire and naturally thinks like: "I did all these methods, I affirmed, it should work. but where is it? why isn't it working? let me watch more videos on how to manifest, let me ask blogs for help, etc." β As I said before, thoughts and actions like the ones above are determined by your state. It doesn't matter if you did SATs, it doesnβt matter if you affirmed for 1 hour, it doesnβt matter what technique you used, because if you are still in the state of lack then it only means that you are ACKNOWLEDGING THAT YOU DON'T HAVE YOUR DESIRE; and when you are in a state of lack, your desires will not show up in the 3D, because as within, so without.
But hey, donβt beat yourself up if you have been persisting in the state of lack. Itβs okay. Letβs focus on changing states!
β Don't condemn yourself for the state into which you have fallen. If you don't like it, move into another. Don't feel sorry for yourself, for if you do, you will make the state a habit and remain there for the rest of your days on earth. Instead, you can believe this doctrine and move out of any state. β - Neville Goddard
β πππ ππ ππππππ ππππππ Ι
1. PICK A STATE β΅
- Have a clear goal in mind and know what state is connected with having it. For example, if youβre manifesting a car, then you should be in the state of a car owner. Another example is if youβre manifesting to have kids / get pregnant, you should be in the state of a mom. And so on β¦
2. EMBODY IT: live in the end or knowing β΅
Living in the end or knowing should not feel like βpretending.β You live in the end or knowing when you know that you have your desire and you think and act as the person that has it already. You stop obsessively thinking about it, you stop trying to get it and you stop noticing the lack of it in the 3D. I recommend you to often ask yourself βif my desire was here now, would I be doing this or thinking this?β Lastly, you can use techniques / methods to help you live in the end or knowing (SATs, interview method, etc β¦) You can live in the end or knowing without techniques. However, it helps people a lot to live in the end / knowing, so I recommend it!
- regarding techniques: βοΈ do not see them as techniques, but see them as reality. for example, SATs; when you do SATs, you shouldnβt see it as just visualizing your desire, but as something you know is reality, like the shirt youβre wearing; you know youβre wearing it. Another example, affirming; don't affirm with the intention of making it happen because you are not affirming in order to get something, affirming is you declaring you having your desire. You should have that same knowing / βfeeling it as realβ while you do any technique!
β You must mentally adjust your thoughts to proceed from the desired state, all within yourself. You fell into your present state either deliberately or unwittingly; and because you are its life, the state became alive and grew like a tree, bearing its fruit which you do not like. Its fruit may be that of poverty, or distress, heartache, or pain. There are all kinds of unlovely fruit. But you can detach yourself from your unlovely harvest by making an adjustment in your human imagination. β - Neville Goddard
3. PERSIST β΅
Listen man, you gotta apply and persist, because at the end of the day, only YOU can get yourself out of the undesired state. Itβs not your fault for how things are now, but you have to take responsibility to pick yourself up and put in the work to reach your desires. You have all the tools and information available, but if you arenβt willing to put in the simple work and keep persisting, then you will remain in the undesired state.οΏΌ So, continue persisting and you shall get in your desired state. Even if it feels unnatural, keep persisting. Neville himself has said that it will at first be unnatural, but if you persist, it will become natural, SO PERSIST!
β Now most of us, knowing what we want, construct it in our minds eye, but never occupy it. We never move into the state and remain there. I call this perpetual construction, deferred occupancy. I could dream of owning a lovely home and hope to go there one day; but if I do not occupy it now, in my imagination, I postpone it to another day. I may wish my friend had a better job. I may have imagined him having it; but if I don't occupy that state by believing he is already there, I have merely constructed the state for him but not occupied it. All day long I can wish he or she were different; but if I don't go into the state and view him from it, I don't occupy the state, so he remains in the unlovely state relative to me. This is the world in which we live β - Neville Goddard
4. YOUR STATES CHANGE β΅
This isnβt really a step, but just the result of steps 1-3! Your state will naturally change after living in the end or knowing and when you persist in that state, your desire will come into fruition in the 3D. How do you know if you changed your state? Well, youβll completely become the person that HAS the desire. Your first and last thought will naturally be in line of having that desire. Your daily thoughts, not affirming but your autopilot thoughts, will be as if you have your desire. You will notice yourself naturally making room for your desires. You don't question or feel weird about any of this. The feeling of knowingness is heavily present, just like how you know your name, how you know youβre wearing a shirt right now, etc. From that state you will no longer notice lack, and you won't feel the need to do techniques.
Before anyone says something like: βIβm expressing a state of success, yet I am still not successful πβ β¦ Um. No. You are not expressing a state of success because you are still dwelling in a state of unsuccessfulness; this applies to any desire, not just success!
living in the end or knowing -> desired state -> desired 3D
β πππππππ ππ ππππππ Ι
β I simply mean a certain attitude of mind. Well, I mean that state or that attitude of mind to which I must constantly return constitutes my dwelling place. And so I dwell in it. So if night after night I dwell in the feeling of feeling sorry for myself, thatβs my state. β
β So, when I speak of states I am speaking of states of consciousness, attitudes of mind which create a body of belief. β
β I urge you to use your own wonderful creative power and deliberately move into the state of your choice. Make it now by occupying the state long enough so that it feels natural. Haven't you had a suit of clothes that felt so new you were conscious of them every moment? I know when I bought my first suit I walked down Fifth Avenue thinking everyone I passed knew my suit was new. People passing paid no attention to me, but I was so aware, so conscious of my new suit. That's exactly that happens when you move into a new state. If the state of affluence is new, you think everyone knows it, but no one knows or cares whether you are rich or poor, so walk in the state until it becomes natural. The moment the feeling is natural, wealth is yours! β
β Your attitude need not be towards another, but an attitude regarding self. β
β I paid thirty dollars for my first suit. Today a suit will cost me $200.00, but regardless of the cost, when the suit is new I am aware of it. But let me wear it long enough for it to feel natural and I will no longer be conscious of it. The same is true for a state. You may desire the state of fame. If you will think you are famous and remain conscious of the state long enough to make it natural, as the thoughts flow from you they become a natural part of your body of beliefs, and the world will proclaim your fame. β
β You don't have to remain in a state if you have made a mistake. You can change states morning, noon, and night, but the state to which you most constantly return constitutes your dwelling place. β
β the state, the attitude of mind to which you most constantly return, constitutes your dwelling place. If you dwell in self- pity you will express the state β
β If we do not know weβre always expressing a state, then we identify ourselves with the state, and we say βI am poor or I am rich, I am known or I am unknown, I am wanted, I am unwantedβ and we go on indefinitely because there are unnumbered states into which we fall. β
β You can satisfy self by appropriating the feeling that you are what you want to be. And this assumption though false, that is, although reason and the senses deny it, if persisted in will harden into fact β
β Now, while weβre here in states, you can change in a twinkle of an eye, change the state. But the chances are you are not going to remain in that change, for it is also made up of a body of beliefs. So if I actually now operate morning, noon and night from a certain base which is my body of beliefs, the chances are tonight when I go to sleep Iβll sleep in it. I know I can get out of it, but how long will I remain out of it to make that state into which I go a natural one? β
β How do you get out of a state? Through belief! You must believe in the doctrine. You are told: "Whatsoever you desire, believe you have received it and you will." β
β Disengage yourself from the whole vast belief that you formerly entertained, and hold on in your imagination to the concept that you ARE the man that you want to beβ¦ For you will RESSURECT and make alive the state that began only as a concept. If you remain faithful to the concept you will be led right into the fulfillment of that state. It is called, in the Bible, re-birth. β
β I will dare to assume that this thing is true. I will assume that I am now the person that I want to be; and assuming it, I will know if Iβm really persuaded by the feeling of certainty that it inspires in me. Because if it inspires that in me, I will act upon it, I will act upon that conviction. If I donβt act upon it, well then, I am not persuaded. β
highly inspired by this, this, and this post! credits to them for much of the information and some of the wording!
anyway, I hope you enjoyed reading! enjoy changing states and happy manifesting, my darlings! ΰ»κ°ΰΎΰ½²β©Λ α΅ Λβ©κ±ΰΎΰ½²ΰ§§
The world is yourself pushed out. Ask yourself what you want and then give it to yourself. Do not question how it will come about, just go your way knowing that the evidence of what you have done must appear, and it will.
β Neville Goddard.
βWhen a person buys a new hat or pair of shoes, he thinks everyone knows that they are new. He feels unnatural with his newly acquired apparel until it becomes a part of him. The same applies to the wearing of the new states of consciousness. Not knowing that consciousness is ever out picturing itself in conditions round about you, you continually look back upon your problems and again become hypnotized by the seeming naturalness.β
β Neville Goddard, Your Faith is your Fortune (Chapter 6).
states of consciousness
this is gonna be a guide to states for dummies.
iβm gonna try and explain this in the simplest way possible so that it clicks for you even if you havenβt read the source.
β imagination is the only reality β
3D = physical form of imagination
4D = imagination, consciousness, awareness
whatever you are experiencing physically as real as it may feel you need to realize you are only experiencing the feelings the physical experience gives you.
the 3D is simply a reflection of consciousness and everything physical exists because you are aware of it. it wouldnβt be there if you were not aware of experiencing it in imagination.
imagination is a lens through which you experience your physical world and whatever you persist in is what expresses. this is why you can manifest.
whatever may be going on in the 3D is not what youβre experiencing, you are always experiencing imagination. you are always trusting imagination.
remember when you βtrusted your gutβ in the past?
remember when you had a feeling that one person in your friend group wasnβt so good and then you were proved right?
βohhh i just knew it! iβm always right.β
well news flash β>
thatβs you experiencing and trusting imagination!
you are only and always experiencing consciousness, this is exactly why manifestation happens.
it is a new way of approaching life, completely opposite to what we have been thought but once truly understood it is the easiest thing ever.
what we grew up believing:
imagination is fiction, delusion, fake.
the outside world is reality, facts, truth.
we learned to bring our physical limitations to imagination. even if we knew we could imagine a different situation to what we were physically experiencing we dismissed it because we thought there was no reason to do it since it was fake, delusion, lies.
we didnβt allow ourselves to enjoy the experience in imagination because it was not βrealisticβ.
whatβs the point of imagining something so βunrealisticβ? youβre an adult! face your reality and move on! be responsible! deal with your problems! stop dreaming!
we learned to only trust our inner feeling on something when it came to negative things. because it is easier to accept that negative things can happen out of nowhere, itβs easy to trust that the possibility of negativity happening to us is so real because we believe we have no control in our reality.
when you believe you have no control and youβre living in a world of chaos where thereβs no reason why things are happening itβs very easy to believe bad things can happen.
this is why we have built this concept of βgut feelingβ, of just trusting your gut when it comes to situations.
βif you have a bad feeling that something is gonna happen, trust your gut!β
well this is just the way man trusts his imagination, the way man always has and always will trust his imagination first.
this is applicable to having the feeling of something good happening of course but that is just a bit rarer because since this is what we have always known it takes a very solid, well rounded and confident person with a strong character to strongly believe something good is gonna happen and to have a βpositiveβ gut feeling.
why? simply because we have learned to believe we are who we are based on our external experiences and infect the belief we have about who we are with the opinions of others.
this is why it takes a strong character to believe something good can happen when you donβt know about manifestation and are simply living with the belief that we have no control over what happens to us.
what manifestation is
manifestation is allowing yourself to experience whatever you want in imagination without bringing the limitations of the outer world within you and trusting/realizing that imagination is the creator of all things.
all you have to do to manifest is allow yourself to experience in imagination what is it that you want to experience no matter what is happening in the physical world.
you know that imagination is limitless and you can literally conjure up anything, you can imagine everything you want.
the only push you need is allowing yourself to experience it in imagination even if the physical world youβre living in is completely opposite.
since you CAN why not be aware of having the solution to your problems in imagination?
since you CAN why not be aware of being the solution to your problems in imagination?
it makes you feel great and you shouldnβt live in misery in your own head. if you can imagine something great because you have this wonderful ability why would you bring the lack and the limitations and the circumstances to your own ONLY mind?
why would you live in desire and misery if you have fulfillment and happiness at your fingertips?
now that weβve established the basics letβs understand states of consciousness.
states of consciousness are experiences.
experiences you want to live.
thatβs all they are.
a state is just an experience or a concept of yourself.
itβs an experience you want to live where you either have something you want or you are something you wanna be.
it is that simple. itβs not some fancy concept, trust me.
this is where the desire comes in:
you want to live this experience, you wish for it, you hope for it and since you donβt know how to apply manifestation you live in wanting, hoping, wishing, desiring because you have been βtrainedβ to not fulfill yourself in imagination, dismiss this desire simply because you donβt have it physically.
you are always in a state means that you are always experiencing something whether that be lack or fulfillment, chaos or peace.
we are always in a state because we are always experiencing something.
right now youβre probably reading this post because you are in the state of not having your desired experience and in the state of trying to manifest your desired experience.
to manifest you simply need to allow yourself to experience in imagination what you want to experience disregarding all doubts, limitations, circumstances because they donβt matter in imagination since you can imagine experiencing anything you want.
learn to change imagination before worrying about changing the senses.
the change in the world of senses will come automatically, naturally and in the best way possible, itβs not something you need to worry about because itβs not your job to make it physical.
to change imagination you need to change your state aka your experience in imagination.
this is what it means to shift states.
this is what it means to shift to the state of the wish fulfilled. β> allowing yourself to experience what you want in imagination regardless of whatβs going on in the outer world.
focus on the change of imagination.
change imagination and the outer world will follow.
βyou need to change self!β
βyou need to change within!β
βyou need to change inside.β
what is the self? imagination.
what is the βwithinβ? imagination.
what is the βinsideβ? imagination.
the way you change imagination is by accepting that you already are who you want to be in imagination and you already have what you want to have in imagination.
the only reason why you struggle is because you donβt accept that you have this experience that you desire already within yourself, and because you try to mold your state to your 3D, instead of completely disregarding it.
since you can imagine it, it exists.
this goes for everything!
imagination creates all things! including the ones you donβt want.
accept this duality.
the sp who doesnβt want you exists just like the sp who is deeply in love with you.
the version of you whoβs broke exists just like the version of you whoβs wealthy.
EVERYTHING YOU CAN IMAGINE EXISTS.
the only reason why youβre not experiencing what you want is because youβre not accepting its existence and persisting in being aware of such concept of yourself.
when you accept the duality of imagination and accept that in it you have all these concepts of yourself, bad and horrible ones and amazing ones you understand that your job when being indifferent to the senses itβs not to deny the existence of the opposite state youβre now experiencing, but rather to deny the belief that you are stuck in it by simply accepting a new truth in its place: the new concept/state.
manifestation works by realizing/accepting that this wonderful experience exists within you and persisting in being aware of it, persisting in being aware of having already the thing you want in imagination instead of being aware of its opposite.
the state you light up with awareness is what manifests.
youβre not pretending, you are it. you have it.
imagination is the only thing we experience always so whatever you experience in imagination is true always. thatβs the only truth. you only need to believe this truth to exist and to be real.
imagination is the only causal power and the only creator. thereβs nothing outside of you causing events to happen, thereβs no fate nor destiny and no such thing as divine timing or βwhatever is meant for me will comeβ. there is only You and Your Awareness.
itβs not your job to make something physical, god is within you in your imagination and will build the road for you.
manifestation is instant, the moment you imagine some new concept or state about yourself the 3D starts adjusting and reshuffling for you.
your only jobs is enjoying being the one who has it (your desire) in imagination.
remove the concept of past or future from your imagination because tomorrow is shaped based on who you are being now, there is no reason for you to worry about the future if youβre in control of it.
stop worrying about time, it is a social construct the only thing out there is the present moment (imagination). there is only Now.
you donβt get to decide when or how your manifestation is materialized and itβs not your job to focus on that, you only focus on having. since imagination is the only reality your manifestation is real now.
you are not your body, you are not your brain, you are not your thoughts, you are not your emotions and you are not your states.
you are awareness choosing which state to experience.
live your life without worries because your needs are met already, go to sleep knowing that your needs are met and live a peaceful fulfilled life.
β‘οΈ When i see something i donβt like i just repeat the new story in my head with confidence because i know it doesnβt mean shit.
β‘οΈ If i have the urge to check the 3D i stop myself and reassure myself itβs done with my affirmations. Because i do not need the 3D to validate me. Itβs dead.
β‘οΈ If i feel very overwhelmed and i cannot think straight enough to focus on anything, i focus on one affirmation and loop it until i feel calm enough to carry on with my day. This is either βEverything in my life is perfectβ or βOnly good things happen to meβ
β‘οΈ As soon as i hear myself begin to waver, i cut myself off and use all my energy to remind myself i am that bitch that gets everything she wants so that nasty ass thought needs to shut up
β‘οΈ if I receive a half assed desire I do not just take it. I am god. I affirm with confidence until everyone knows I donβt just get what I want, I get exactly what I want
β‘οΈ If i catch myself doubting my power or not living in the end i dedicate that day to focusing on my self concept because bitch iβm worth more than what i desire.
βββ
What to take from this:
- Remind yourself of the new story because thatβs the only that matters
- Just focus on what you want because thatβs exactly how you get what you want
- Why check the 3D when you already know you have it? Trust yourself, bab.
- Have a go to affirmation or visualisation to loop when things get too much
- We donβt have time to waver on the shit we donβt want
- Donβt you dare settle for less than your desires. You are god.
- You are worth more than all your desires combined. Act like it.
just like
Do you know why youβre ugly ass circumstances donβt matter? Because your thoughts created them in first place! So if you created them, guess what babes? You can uncreate it into your absolute ideal circumstance.
Spiritual law cannot be broken. It is always working. Your thoughts are always manifesting. So as long as you are affirming and persisting in what you desire, your circumstances have no choice but to change into a desirable circumstances.
It doesnβt matter how bad you think your circumstances are, they have nothing over you and your limitless power. It doesnβt matter if it takes one hundred or one million people to shift their actions in order to make you get what you desire. Your circumstances will change. As long as you are persisting in what you want, everything else that doesnβt align will be eliminated. Anything between you and your manifestations will be eliminated.
some neville goddard quotes i find helpful:
β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β
βYou are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it.β
βI know of no clearer definition of the means by which we realize our desires than to EXPERIENCE IN THE IMAGINATION WHAT WE WOULD EXPERIENCE IN THE FLESH WERE WE TO ACHIEVE OUR GOAL.β
βThe best denial is total indifference. Things wither and die through indifference. They are kept alive through attention. You do not deny a thing by saying it does not exist.β
βBy imagination we have the power to be anything we desire to be.β
βTo reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself.β
βAlthough you may now seem to be what you do not want to be, all you need do to change it, and to prove the change by circumstances in your world, is to quietly assume that you are that which you now want to be, and in away you do not know you will become it.β
βMan must firmly come to believe that reality lies within him and not without.β
βWhatever the mind of man can conceive and feel as true, the subconscious can and must objectify.β
βAs soon as you succeed in convincing yourself of the reality of the state sought, results follow to confirm your fixed belief.β
βAs soon as man assumes the feeling of his wish fulfilled, his fourth dimensional Self finds ways for the attainment of this end, discovers methods for its realization.β
βThrough your ability to think and feel, you have dominion over all creation.β
βCapture the feeling associated with your realized wish by assuming the feeling that would be yours were you already in possession of the thing you desire, and your wish will objectify itself.β
βYou are that which you believe yourself to be.β
βEverything we do, unaccompanied by a change of consciousness, is but futile readjustment of surfaces.β
βHumanity is a single being in spite of its many forms and faces, and there is in it only such seeming separation as we find in our own being when we are dreaming.β
βAs soon as we succeed in transforming self, our world will dissolve and reshape itself in harmony with that which our change affirms.β
βThat is; you say silently but feelingly to yourself, βI AM.β Do not condition this 'awareness' as yet. Just declare yourself to be, and continue to do so, until you are lost in the feeling of just being β faceless and form- less. When this expansion of consciousness is attained, then, within this formless deep of yourself give form to the new conception by FEELING yourself to be THAT which you desire to be.β
βIt does not matter what it is you desire to have done, or whom you select to do it. As soon as you subjectively affirm that it is done, results follow.β
βFailure is always due to an antagonistic auto-suggestion by the patient, arising from objective doubt of the power of medicine or relic, or from doubt of the truth of the theory.β
βImagination and faith are the secrets of creation.β
βYou have nothing to do but convince yourself of the truth of that which you desire to see manifested.β
βOur subconscious assumptions continually externalize themselves that others may consciously see us as we subconsciously see ourselves, and tell us by their actions what we have subconsciously assumed of ourselves to be.β
βDo not question the how of these things appearing, for no man knows that way.β
βBecome indifferent and begin to feel yourself to be that which would be the solution of the problem.β
βYou do not visualize yourself at a distance in point of space and at a distance in point of time being congratulated on your good fortune. Instead, you make elsewhere HERE, and the future NOW. The future event is a reality NOW in a dimensionally larger world and oddly enough, now in a dimensionally larger world is equivalent to HERE in the ordinary three dimensional space of everyday life.β
βEvery dream could be realized by those self-disciplined enough to believe it.β
βLife does not care whether you call yourself rich or poor; strong or weak. It will eternally reward you with that which you claim as true of yourself.β
βThe reason most of us fail to realize our desires is because we are constantly conditioning them. Do not condition your desire. Just accept it as it comes to you.β
βCreation is finished.β
βThe reason men condition their desires is because they constantly judge after the appearance of being and see the things as real β forgetting that the only reality is the consciousness back of them.β
βBegin now to mentally see and feel yourself as that which you want to be, and feast upon that sensation morning, noon, and night.β
βConsciousness is the one and only reality.β
βInstead of trying to change others through argument and force, let me but ascend in consciousness to a higher level and I will automatically change others by changing myself.β
βBecause consciousness is the only reality I must assume that I am already that which I desire to be. If I do not believe that I am already what I want to be, then I remain as I am and die in this limitation.β
βAssume the feeling of your wish fulfilled and continue feeling that it is fulfilled until that which you feel objectifies itself.β
βThe future dream must become a present fact in the mind of him who seeks to realize it.β
βFeed the mind with premises that is, assertions presumed to be true, be- cause assumptions, though false, if persisted in until they have the feeling of reality, will harden into fact.β
βThat God exists in us and we in him.β
βThe Bible gives it as three days; the duration is three days for responsein this world. If I would now assume I am what I want to be, and if I am faithful to it and walk as though I were, the very longest stretch given for its realization is three days.β
β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β β
I've known about manifesting for a few years but I've only started consciously manifesting a few months ago. Now, I didn't "succeed" in manifesting until about a month ago when I realized Self Concept is literally the most important thing (and the only thing you truly need).
For the past few months, I've been stalking loa blogs because I wanted to learn more and I liked reading success stories. Thankfully I didn't rely on them but they did make me feel better. But through those months I noticed the one thing consistently successful manifestors had in common was they all had good self concepts and it was the one thing they were constantly preaching that very few people actually practiced.
So many of these blogs constantly get asks about whether it's possible to manifest something or how to manifest by a certain time or how to manifest when you feel like shit and it's like. I'm surprised any of them have the patience!
Please, realize the power you have. You are all you need to manifest. You are the universe. You are God. You can use methods but you don't need them. You can constantly affirm but you don't need to. All you need to manifest everything you want every time you want is to have a good self concept. That's all! You don't need anything else!!
Having a good self concept isn't just "being confident". It's recognizing that you are the creator of your universe and you can do whatever you want with it. It's knowing that you have everything you want. It's recognizing how powerful you are and how nothing can stop you. You want 10 million dollars? Baby, you already have it. You want only designer clothing and a cute partner that spoils you rotten? Just say the word and it's yours!
You don't need to put in any extra work to get a good self concept so don't use that as a demotivator either! Literally just say that you do. The only thing I did was affirm that I have the best self concept and guess what? I had that shit in a day. I no longer feel the need to relentlessly scroll through my favorite loa blogs or listen to subs or read success stories to hype myself up. I don't feel like I need to get into the void or recite affirmations. The past three weeks have been amazing for me. And I know it's only going to get better.
It is so freeing to have a good self concept. You may have doubts occasionally, that's normal. But they go away so quickly because you know better. When the 3D shows the opposite, you don't panic or get discouraged. You don't force yourself to do whatever method people are hyping up because you know you don't need it. You just overall feel more confident, more assured, more calm, more like the God you are.
You guys need to stop relying on other people and outside sources to manifest. If you've been on loablr for even a week then you already have everything you need to manifest! Aka. Yourself. Work on your self concept babes. I promise you, it's not a waste of time. It's not another random method. This is literally the only thing you need.
If you need more convincing, here. Again, I started "working on" (I say working as if I didn't just get it instantly alhgajdhg) my self concept a little under a month ago. Since then, this is what I've manifested:
-My mom bringing home food. This one is actually a really good example of how your subconscious knows everything. I originally was affirming she would bring home mcdonalds but I knew I didn't really want that and I was only thinking about what the cheapest thing was. I didn't know what I wanted her to bring home, but guess what! She still brought home exactly what I really wanted.
-My mom having more money over the holiday season. We've always had an issue with money (ehe not anymore dumb 3d bitch) so I manifested us having no issues during the holidays. Not only did we eat at a fancier restaurant, we bought food and gifts multiple times over two weeks. We also just had a lot of fun in general π
-A family member being healthy. I don't want to get into too much detail but essentially, someone in my family had a health scare. It was looking bad at the time but I manifested that they would be fine. And they were!
-An ask being sent to a different blog! This was a topic that I wanted to talk about for years but I wanted to do it in the form of someone asking. (I wasn't even consciously manifesting this one! Another example of your subconscious being That Bitch.)
-My favorite sub maker to release a sub specifically about self concept and empowerment (which I don't even need to use now akdaljgd).
-My mom having more energy and being healthier
-Got rid of intense back pain (and being sick!). I got a little sick last week and at one point my entire back hurt so much that I could barely move. Some affs later and it was almost entirely gone (completely gone the next day).
-More followers and interaction on my main. Haven't posted in a month and yet I'm still gaining at a steady rate
-A family member's partner being a really good person and loving them the way they deserve
-My hair not getting greasy as fast
-Safer neighborhood
-Seeing more angel numbers (first as a test and now just because I like them)
-My mom's work not bringing a bunch of people back in while we're still in the middle of a panini (might just manifest that away too cause why not)
-My friend getting her gift, finally. I sent it to her weeks ago and we were both scared it got lost. Last night I affirmed that it didn't get lost and that she would literally get it the next day. This morning she texted me about getting it :)
-And more that I can't remember rn!
Again, this was all under a month. I haven't gotten into the void. I don't religiously listen to subs. I only affirm when I wake up and before I go to sleep, so basically sats (and even then it's a couple of affs, not a whole book). I only check my favorite loa blogs cause I like to keep up with them. Success stories are more like feel good "you go bestie" things for me not motivators to manifest. This is literally just what it's like to have a good self concept. And that is so easy to obtain.
Anyway, here are some posts that really helped me: one, two, three
There's nothing stopping you from having everything you want! Work on your self concept and I promise everything will fall into place the way you want it to.