90sjruby

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“source?” divine intuition, gut instinct, and cryptic symbolism from my dreams

Be your own friend, have your own back, encourage yourself, motivate yourself, discipline yourself, make yourself laugh, comfort yourself when you cry, enjoy your own company, discover yourself, ask yourself the deep questions, feed yourself good food, watch stuff that makes you feel good, hug yourself, smile at yourself just because, compliment yourself, extend yourself endless grace… you are the greatest thing you can offer yourself.

No one can explain it

There was a time when you thought you were someone, like a person in a story. You would wake up every day, start the motions, do what you need to do, think thoughts, chase goals. It was all so serious. The world, the people, the dreams—all felt so heavy, like they had to be something, like *you* had to be someone. You were always running after something, even when you didn’t know exactly what that “something” was.

And then, one day—you just paused. Not because you wanted to, but because you couldn’t help it. The constant reading, thinking, searching were repetitive and exhausting.

You thought around and realized that everything you thought you were doing, everything you thought you needed, was just… noise. It was as if everything—the thoughts, the plans, the endless loop of trying—had all faded into the background. And what was left?

Can you describe it? Can anyone actually do it?

It was this simple, quiet *something*. Not a person. Not a name. Not a story. Just… *this*.

I couldn’t describe it, not with words, not with thoughts. It wasn’t something you could touch or hold. It was like nothing but something at the same time. It was already here, but not inside of *this* , the whole time, as if it had always been.

I thought I had to become something, but really, I had always been everything—without even realizing it. It’s like I was wearing a mask of “me,” and one day, I just took it off. And there was no relief or grand realization. Just a quiet familiar feeling that said, “Oh… this is it. This was always it.”

It’s a strange thing, really, when you stop taking everything so seriously, so real. There’s no grand answer to find. No secret to uncover. No destination.

Just… this and no one can explain it.

stop falling in "love" and start falling into goals and ambitions

i just saw a girl on tiktok say how she had to get back to working a 9 to 5 because 4 years ago her boyfriend convinced her to delete her tiktok account which has 70k+ followers and she was getting brand deals because he was "uncomfortable" with her having a social media presence

this is why i make these posts to teach and re-shape women's perspective

clearly the men are doing something right and have nothing to change

but the women are so damn gullible and naive,

believing in love, twin flames and soulmates is literally ruining women's lives and livelihood

how many men do you know would give up a source of income for their girl?

how many men do you know would give up their entire life and career to move to a while different city/country for their girlfriend?

how many men do you know would self isolate and abandon all their friends, family and support system to be with a girl?

how many men do you know would give up the opportunity to study a broad or do a paid internship because their girlfriend disapproves of it?

very few men, if rarely you will find these cases, but women? they love throwing their lives away at the first sign of someone giving them a crumb of affection

i know women who are in jail and have a criminal record because of "love",

i know women who dropped out of school because of "love",

i know women who are hospitalized in the name of "love",

i know women who had nervous breakdowns or developed an autoimmune disease because of "love"

men are hardwired to prioritize themselves first

meanwhile what are we teaching women from childhood through adulthood?

what are we feeding women's minds through disney, romance movies and YA novels?

we're teaching them to be highly emotional, co-dependent, naive individuals who are willing to give up everything for a crumb of validation and to not feel lonely

step up ladies and get attached to some goals, education, money, business, spirituality

STOP pouring your light, love and energy into men

stop cutting off your own blessings!

by our dear པོ་ལ @effortless.being on IG🙌🏻🤍

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

⋆ 　🌿　𓏲 ﾟ   🧿     ⟡     🌸  ⠀⠀

sending you an abundance of good vibes & positivity to start the week. be optimistic, believe that good things are coming your way & they will. don’t let anything disturb your inner peace, sending love

⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ꕀ ⠀🫧⠀ ⟡ 　🦋 𑁯 ﾟ

4t2 Karlstad Kitchen Part 1 + Part 2 ★

hi! so i (mostly) complete all the kkb karlstad kitchen set ! and i include the matching dining set too :].. ★

this set consist on: the cabinets (if you have these from my old post, pls re-download) a functional fridge, kitchen hob, coffe machine, and a dish-washer (expect weird animations) appliances cabinets (that works like normal counters but it will dissapear if u put a sink or make it a corner) a fridge nook, a dining chair, 3 types of dining tables (and a pretty rug !) :]

(i tried to re-convert the counters but its frustrating so.. u can get the low oven and the counters from @jacky93sims) (and thanks jacky for helping me with some objects ★)

you can download this: here (mediafire) or here (simfileshare)

edit: oops, i forgot to say that i cloned the kitchen hob from @kayleigh-83 !

★ more pretty previews:

@miikocc Vintage Tapestry Top & Skirt Separated

I got both requests done for the top and bottom to be separated, has requested has well the top includes the smoothed hands by TenshiiAkari 😄

Download: sfs (packages files have been compressed)

YF-AF only

Fat Morph

Everyday

Maxis bodyshape

Top poly: 4902 Skirt poly: 3483

I would like to wish everyone has well a happy new year! I hope you had a good entrance to 2024~ may this year be filled with even more joy and success! 🥳

credits: miiko, TenshiiAkari

Well, anon offered me to make a conversion of stealthic’s midsummer night (because existing version has some transparencies) and I did it because I like this hair too. Also there are a couple of necklaces that wait in my to-do folder too long (hope no one converted them xD). Details under the cut!

Stealthic MidsummerNight 4to2

Seguir leyendo

Nightcrawler’s Mesmer 4to2

— for teen-elder, female only — polycount: 31.1k (from 38k) — smooth bones assignments and animated — textures: original texture — color palette — binned and familied; elders come in grey (linked to black); custom greys are available for teen-adult — original ts4 mesh here

Turnaround: https://ibb.co/HdFLkM2 Download: SFS | Patreon (free)

4t2 Curly Hair with Double Buns by Wings

@redsimmer-blog asked for it and I delivered it! 😄 Hope you all enjoy it!

☆ Informations ☆ TF-EF | Poppet V2 | Binned & Compressed | 29k poly | Slightly Animated

Original CC can be downloaded HERE!

☆ Downloads ☆ SimFileShare MediaFire

If you have any problems or anything else that you want to discuss with me, feel free to message/ask me about it! :)

Because the chance of freedom is dwindling, I've used the last of it to convert my yearly gift to @microscotch!

Download All - SFS | MF Download Individual - SFS | MF

and because I could, I did:

cornrowslong default replaced with EP14 CornrowsLong - SFS | MF

details under the cut

credit: simstrouble

simstrouble Charline v4 TF-EF | 8.998 poly

simstrouble Charline v1 TF-EF | 12.640 poly

simstrouble Charline v3 TF-EF | 10.854 poly

simstrouble Charline v2 TF-EF | 10.784 poly

simstrouble Hava v2 TF-EF | 11.241 poly

simstrouble Hava v1 TF-EF | 11.236 poly

simstrouble Hava v4 TF-EF | 9.517 poly

simstrouble Hava v3 TF-EF | 9.506 poly

EP14 PonyBraid TF-EF | 3.690 poly

simstrouble Dennis v1 CF-EF | 7.326 poly

EP14 CornrowsLong CF-EF | 4.702 poly

✨🦇 Happy Simblreen 🦇✨

The spooky season has begun. It's still a little while before halloween, but I didn't want to deprive you of my small 4t2 cc set for simblreen. Have fun and pls tell me if you have any issues with them. ✨

🦇 Crystal by Clumsyalien - original + V2 with Harvest Witch Hat by Littlecakes - original - tf-ef, 4 binned colors, animated, V1: 9,8k polys V2: 9,6k polys

🦇 Yuletide V2 by NolanSims - original - pf-ef, 4 binned + 4 ombre colors, animated, 6,3k polys

🦇 Salem Top by Clumsyalien - original - yaf-af, 8 colors, all morphs

🦇 Tabitha Pants by Clumsyalien - original -yaf-af, 4 colors, all morphs, ts4 boots

🦇 Effie Dress by Littlecakes - original - yaf-af, 4 colors, all morphs, with 4t2 JulieJ Lace Up Boots

DOWNLOADS: SFS I MF

credits: Clumsyalien, Littlecakes, NolanSims EA

S-club’s Lisana 4to2

— for teen-elder, female only — polycount: 36.3k (lowered from 48k) — smooth bones assignments and animated — textures: blend of original texture and io’s edit of pooklet’s v3 — color palette — binned and familied; elders come in grey (linked to black); custom greys are available for teen-adult — original ts4 mesh here

Turnaround: https://ibb.co/HgX1Xcd Download: SFS |  Patreon (free)

S-club’s Haruki 4to2

— for teen-elder, female only — polycount: 23.3k (lowered a bit from 28k) — animated — textures: blend of original texture and io’s edit of pooklet’s v3 — color palette — binned and familied; elders come in grey (linked to black); custom greys are available for teen-adult — original ts4 mesh here

Turnaround: https://ibb.co/4RTWnmZ Download: SFS |  Patreon (free)

Remussirion’s Fus eyes 4to2

— 36 colours — custom — color swatches here —  original creation is here

Download: SFS | Patreon (free)

Back to the requests! (by anons)

Sury is TF-EF only.

6 natural colors, gray linked to black. Meshes and bodyshop swatches are included, enjoy! :)

Credits: Simpliciaty, Polygonbeach, Newsea, Trapping, XM Sims, Simgaroop

Download Simpliciaty Sury (9.1K polys) - Alternate

Download Newsea Yesenia (11.2K polys) - Alternate

Download XM Sims Flora 76b (5.1K polys) - Alternate

Today I bring you these two gorgeous hairstyles and some jewellery! ✨

Romy hair by @okruee (AF-PU, 4 colors binned, tool-tipped, 17,831 polys *I tried lowering the poly count but it was ruining the hair a little too much for my taste, so keep in mind the poly count*

Tess hair by @aharris00britney (AF-TF, 4 color binned, tool-tipped, 6,205 polys)

And the jewellery:

Glimpse necklace by @joliebean (AF-TF, 4 swatches, 4,018 polys, both as an accessory & BV jewellery)

Glimpse earrings by @joliebean (AF-TF, 5 swatches, 2,408 polys, both as an accessory & BV jewellery)

Eva necklace by @serenitycc (AF-TF, 5 swatches, 5,026 polys, both as an accessory & BV jewellery)

Everything’s compressed, enjoy! ♥

download (sfs) // alt download (medifire)

Recently a sweet Anon asked me if I'd like to convert some items from @serenity-cc's amazing Year Of The Rabbit collection and I really really liked these two dresses, so here they are! 🌱

The dresses are top-only ('cause that's something new I've learned how to do and with a little better joints than usual thanks to @platinumaspiration ♥) so you can pair them with whichever shoes you'd like! 🦝

Also there are two hairstyles by @imvikai cause I thought they were cute! 🦔

Magnolia dress (AF, both morphs, ten swatches, 3,329 polys)

Jing v2 (AF, both morphs, ten swatches, 1,949 polys)

Miyu hair (AF-CU, 4 colors binned, animated, 3,158 polys)

Hana hair (AF-TF, 4 colors binned, animated, 3,918 polys)

Everything's compressed, enjoy! ♥

download (sfs) // alt download (mediafire)

do you ever realize how mainstream it is to believe in gods, the universe, the stars, the clouds, nature, the occult, the angel numbers, the fortune teller, the books, even the lines on your palms, the size of your fingers, and so on.. but never yourself?

you don't believe in the law, which is basically saying you don't believe in yourself. why is that? why is it that we literally look to the size of and distance between our toes to try to figure out our future.. but we can't look to ourselves? is that not extremely pathetic?

we say "life is unpredictable", we're so scared of "life" that we try and look to every other thing inside of it (but ourselves) for answers. why? have we forgotten that we created all these things we fear? why is everything but us taking the blame?

we talk about life as if it is a sentient being, as if it has some sort of control when it really doesn't. why is it that "life is unpredictable"? what exactly is life? what kind of control does it have over us?

please ask yourself, is life inherently unpredictable, or do we assign the role of unpredictability to life with our own assumptions?

this literally goes for anything, another example: is life inherently unfair, or do we assign the role of unfairness to life with our own assumptions?

do you enjoy doing things the hard way, constantly waiting for a response, trying to decipher the signs you conjured up on your own? why must we do everything the hard way?

when are you going to realize that it's all you? when are you going to stop giving yourself work to do? when are you going to just be?

when are you going to start creating beneficial things for yourself and stop creating your own torment?

.. 2024 planning ! ☁️. *. ⋆

I have a lot to accomplish this year, so lets plan it all out. ♡

Physical ! ⋆ - move my body at least once everyday. (yoga, pilates, lifting). - listen to my body when it comes to what i eat. - get into the habit of walking places! - try new recipes & new foods. - continue to take care of my skin & hair. - invest in clothes and items that make me feel confident. - drink at least three bottles of water a day.

Intellectual ! ⋆ - read at least one book a month. - focus on schoolwork (study or homework every week night). - continue to learn new things by choice. - take the time to read articles and learn of other views. - remember that the media you intake is part of what shapes your mind.

Social ! ⋆ - be kind to others, smile and say hi. - do what you can help if someone needs something. - if you are invited, say yes. - live. ♡

Self-Care ! ⋆ - take time when you need to. - keep praying, He is there for you. - be gentle and understanding to yourself. - cut out negativity from your life. - stay positive, but remember it is okay to cry. - embrace your feelings, do not force them away.

Non-negotiable Daily Habits ! ⋆ - make my bed every morning. - brush my teeth twice a day. - shower every day.

Goals ! ⋆ - pass the early college test. - take Spanish II online. - end sophomore year with all A's (and B's). - begin early college junior year. - join a club next school year. - keep up with academic and personal goals! - be a different version of my self in 365 days from now.

basics of loa

-what is law of assumption?

it's a law that states that everything you assume to be true has no choice but to be true. so basically, your assumptions form the world, your assumptions are the reason for the creation of any and everything in this world. you can assume lions are blue in colour and you'd see evidence for that assumption. let's take some examples from your life, what is the colour of your hair? black/brown/blonde/ginger/pink/purple/green/blue/etc., see how your hair colour is the colour you assume it is? that's loa. if you assumed it was a different colour, you'd see evidence in the physical or the 3 dimensional reality of your hair being the colour you assume it is. it can seem fake at first because of logic but i promise you, it's not! try it out for yourself, like manifest seeing a certain colour or a fruit, an animal, food, a person etc. it is real and it works for EVERYONE.

-what does it mean to assume?/how to assume?

to assume in loa is simply the same as the word means independently. "suppose to be the case, without proof" (google definition), that's all it is. you simply suppose that it's the case even without physical proof, just yet. your assumptions form your world so if you assume something even without any legitimate proof in the 3d, it has no choice but to eventually show up in the 3d. how long it takes for it to show up depends - again - on your beliefs or assumptions. to make it easier to not get demotivated by not having visible proof in the physical reality, it's good to have the assumption that it doesn't take very long for your assumptions to materialize in the 3d. your constant thoughts build your assumptions, all your thoughts are affirmations (affirm and assume can be interchanged in context of loassumption). for example if you constantly keep thinking that you're ugly, it becomes an assumption, so even if you weren't ugly to begin with (in your standards of what you consider ugly), this assumptions hardens itself into a fact in the physical reality by making you match your standards of what ugly is. want proof? remember how the self degradation fb memes became trending in the beginning of the pandemic, if you read those and agreed with the self degradation constantly, im pretty sure you must have started feeling those things show up in the 3d even if they weren't originally there. happened with me and a lot of others. so how do you assume? you think, that's literally all. it's just that simple.

all you need to do to manifest is affirm and persist.

-what does persist mean?

to persist is to stick to the new story or assumption and not look back to the old one. it does not mean that you have to affirm 24/7, it means that you dont affirm AGAINST what you're manifesting and simply STICK TO THE NEW STORY. "continue in an opinion or course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition" (google definition) KEEP GOING, do not look back to the old story so often that your old story is the one you end up manifesting again. STICK TO THE NEW STORY.

-methods

you don't need any methods, all you have to do is assume you have whatever it is you want and persist. THAT IS ALL. if you do enjoy methods or challenges, you can find them all over the community. the most popular methods are probably subliminals and scripting. you can make challenges for yourself so they cater to your needs.

HOW TO STOP SELF SABOTAGING + DOUBTING

MAKE YOUR GOALS/HABITS AN IDENTITY. Your lifestyle makes up who you are, quite literally. If you want to wake up early, then start identifying yourself as an early bird. If you want to get good grades, then start identifying yourself as a studious student. And so on. 

This helps with feeling more accountable and committed to our goals and habits. However, don’t use this as a reason to overexert yourself. 

THERE IS SOMETHING UNDERNEATH CERTAIN BEHAVIOURS. All of your bad habits stem from your subconscious. This is why mentally healthy people tend to think more about their physical health. 

The best way to recognise patterns beneath your bad habits is just to talk to yourself. In any way or any form. Identify it, see what might’ve caused this subconscious thought and then work towards a way to replace the feeling that these bad habits give with a good one. 

DETACH FROM THE OUTCOME. The more you fixate on the long-term results, the more longer, strenuous and exhausting your journey is going to be, especially because you’re going to want to give up as soon as results don’t appear. Focus on the short-term results. 

You exercised? Now you feel good inside. You studied hard and understood everything? Great job for being so productive. You did that one really scary thing? What a great start!

THE PART OF YOU THAT DOES BAD HABITS IS NOT BAD. It is the complete opposite of bad. It loves you and wants to keep you safe, so it refrains you from doing anything ‘scary’ (which is typically new things in our lives) and makes you fall back on ‘safe’ habits which are a coping mechanism. 

So, instead of berating that part of you that participates in bad habits even if you know it’s bad, understand it. As these coping mechanisms usually stem from our childhoods, we turn to these habits when we feel stressed, anxious or depressed. 

MAKING YOUR PHONE TO BE INTENTIONAL

MAKE A VISION BOARD WALLPAPER. Create one that aligns with your goals and dream self, so that every time you pick your phone up, you’re reminded of your goals and future vision. Also, great for manifesting! 

KNOW YOUR APP’S PURPOSE. For me, tumblr is a way I share advice and learn, YouTube I also learn from others, pinterest I get inspired, netflix is a way for me to unwind etc. If for any app, you cannot name a proper purpose/intent to use it daily or to help with your goals, delete it. 

DECIDE WHICH TYPES OF APPS YOU WANT. If you have a new phone, or you want to completely reset your phone, write or type, the apps, that you want and those you don’t. 

E.g I want to learn a language, practice mindfulness on the go, get some mental gratification that isn’t addicting, organise my life better and have a way to track my progress. I don’t want apps that support doom-scrolling, make me compare myself and are addictive. 

BE MINDFUL OF WHAT YOU SIGN UP TO. Newsletters, social media, subscribing to YouTubers and so on, just think about your goals and vision and if they align with them, every time you think about signing up/subscribing. 

HAVE NO PHONE TIME/ZONES. For me, my phone is not allowed to be used in bed. If I must use my phone, I have to get out of bed first. My phone is also not allowed during study time, so I put it in a separate room which makes it inconvenient. 

REGULARLY DO A DIGITAL DECLUTTER. Delete any old contacts that you don’t talk to, unsubscribe from newsletters and YouTube channels, organise your socials etc. Removes space and helps us to see our phones with more clarity. 

SET PURPOSEFUL WIDGETS. These can be anything, motivational quotes, your daily to-do list, reminders of your habits and so on. However, make sure you’re looking at them and they're not just taking up space. 

𝟮𝟮𝟮 | alignment |

— you are in the right place at the right time. you are on the right path, trust your angels. you are being supported on both the physical and non physical realms 🪽🪽

I just want to clear one thing up because there seems to be a lot of confusion surrounding my recent post about states.

You can't police, flip, or force every thought all day every day. It's exhausting and frankly too much work. You can use methods to get into your desired state, which includes affirmations. My point was always to say that affirmations are not needed to get to the state of the wish fulfilled and that reaching the desired state is the end goal, not the affirmations.

Intention is the only necessary thing to get to the state of the wish fulfilled. Then, being in your desired state will allow your thoughts to match the state you're in. You are only ever thinking thoughts that relate to your current state of consciousness. Thus, by changing your state first, you won't have to flip or police your thoughts because the relevant thoughts will flow from the state you're in.

The only necessary thing to manifest is to get to your desired state and persist in that state. Changing your thoughts always begins with changing your state.

˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬

Now, I know you guys have read posts upon posts about how states are important and what they are. However, I have seen a lot of people asking just how to use states to change your self-concept. Here, I will tell you guys how I have been able to effectively change my state in relation to my self-concept. 

𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬?

We’ve said this time and time again, states are mindsets. Think about it like this: your state = state of mind. It's really as simple as that. If you notice the thoughts you are thinking, how you're reacting to things around you and the feelings you have currently, then you can be aware of the current state that you are occupying.

𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭

A lot of people like to say that self-concept isn’t important. Yes, you can manifest without a good self-concept. It’s possible, everyone has done it. Since we are constantly manifesting unconsciously, clearly we don’t need a good self-concept to manifest. However, if you want to consciously manifest better, and if you want your unconscious manifestations to be favorable, I would say that working on your self-concept is imperative.

𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬

𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬 In my experience, people have been overcomplicating the idea of states. Really, states are not complicated. They may seem daunting since it’s a new phrase floating around the loa sphere. However, it’s actually very simple. You are always entertaining a state. You are in a state right now. Observe the thoughts you’re thinking right now and you will be able to identify the state you are currently in. If your thoughts are positive in your favor, then you are in a favorable state. If you find yourself thinking thoughts that are often negative or even degrading to yourself, then you are in an unfavorable state, and I would encourage you to change it.

𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭 Your self-concept is not your assumptions about the world around you. It’s assumptions you have about self. It includes your limitations, your strengths and weaknesses, your social skills, your confidence, and most importantly, your assumptions about manifestation. Also, people think that working on your self-concept is a complicated process. Really, it’s just consciously working on your beliefs about yourself, manifestation, and consciously changing your states when you find yourself in an unfavorable state. Mental diets are also very important when it comes to changing your self-concept. Being aware of your thoughts allows you to be aware of the state you are consistently entertaining. 

𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭

While self-concept has to do with the assumptions you have about yourself and who you are in relation to the world, it also has to do with your current state of consciousness. How you feel internally and even the thoughts you think can affect how you react to the world around you.

This is why using states to change your self-concept is so important.

You can change your current state to one of confidence, intelligence, sociability, success, being the god of your reality, etc. Any state of mind can be a state. However, to completely change your state, you must abandon the previous state. You cannot take any part of an old state into your new state, you cannot be double-minded.

𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐀𝐓𝐒 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞

SATS = the state akin to sleep

Before, I used to think that working on your self-concept was difficult. In fact, in my early days on Tumblr, the only way I suggested working on your self-concept was through affirmations. To be honest, it was the only way I knew how to do it at the time. However, once I figured out that states are a quick and easy way to improve your self-concept, everything changed for me. Suddenly I wasn’t trying to change my self-concept, I was effectively and permanently bettering my self-concept.

My favorite way to change my state is with intention, of course. The way I do this is by becoming aware of the undesirable state and then deciding to change it to something much more desirable. It usually has to do with whatever I want to embody at the moment. This means, if the actions I am perpetuating show that I am in an insecure state, then I will decide to change my state to that of someone who is sure of herself and confident. 

Sometimes, though, changing my state can be more difficult. Maybe I'm in an intense emotional state and intention is too simple for me to fully leave behind that state and embody a new one. In this case, I love to use the SATS method to change my state. 

Now, I will be sharing the entire process that helps me do this. 

First, in order to get into SATS, you must immobilize your body. It's basically meditation. You can do it in any position if you'd like: sitting, laying down, or even standing. Just be in a place where you can completely, calmly, and safely detach from the room around you. Then, you will relax your mind and your body. It helps for me to say things like I am relaxed, I am calm, or I am the operant power of my reality as I am entering the state akin to sleep. Make sure your mind isn't wandering or racing too much. It will take practice to keep your mind disciplined, so if you find your mind wandering often, don't get frustrated. Just simply return your attention back to the main scene. Once you reach a point where you feel relaxed and calm, and I've found that this can take from 1-30 minutes depending on the person, you will begin to say I am not my state, I am not my body, I am not my feelings, I am not my emotions, and similar phrases in order to detach from the physical and focus on the inner reality and consciousness. You can say these as many times as you want, but I usually repeat them about 3 times, or until it feels real to me. Then, I focus on my desired state, feeling the wish fulfilled in this safe space I've created in my imagination. I allow myself to inhabit this desired state until I feel like I can persist in it, and then I exit the state akin to sleep.

𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞

Once you achieve this desirable state, all it takes is persistence to permanently achieve this desired state. This means that whenever you find yourself in a state that isn’t helpful to you, you must decide to return back to the desired state. Whether you do this by intention, SATS, or by any other method, it’s just important to return to the desired state.

Don’t worry about wavering, that’s okay. Remain determined and faithful to your new state. Once you repeatedly return to the state enough, it will become natural to you, and you won’t have to intentionally return to it anymore. At that point, you will be in the Sabbath. The manifestation process is not only for physical manifestation, it’s all the same even for internal manifestations, such as mindset changes and self-concept changes.

Therefore, working on your self-concept can be as easy as deciding and intending to change your state of consciousness.

Remain in the mental state defined as your objective until it has the feeling of reality , and all the forces of heaven and earth will rush to aid its embodiment. (Assumptions Harden Into Fact Neville Goddard)

how to “manifest”

in this post i’m not gonna go into the theory behind manifestation and law of assumption and imagination and i’m gonna focus on practically what to do to manifest something you want.

if you want to know WHY you manifest like this you’re just gonna have to go and read my other posts.

this is gonna be a PRACTICAL guide to manifestation and it’s gonna be the simplest thing ever.

i’m not gonna go too deep into the theory behind this as i have other posts for that, i’m gonna provide you a nice simple guide which can be useful for when you’re feeling like you’re deep into overconsumption.

back to the basics

define your desire:

this is key because you have to be clear on what you want, if this takes you time to fully understand what is your end goal don’t worry, take your time and understand what it’s your truest desire, what is that you REALLY want.

leave the world alone:

once you have decided what your desire is now you need to leave behind all the reasons why you can’t have your desire.

for example: you want a car BUT you don’t have any money, your parents won’t buy it for you.

your only job here is fulfilling yourself in imagination leaving all the reasons why you can’t have your desire in the 3D, any reason why you can’t have it logically does not matter at all because you’re never supposed to create anything in the 3D or make it happen there. forget all the reasons why you can’t have it because there is no 3D in imagination.

you can imagine anything!

fulfill yourself in imagination:

once you disregarded all the reasons why you think your desire can’t be yours and you realized your only job is to have it in imagination you can fulfill yourself.

the 3D does not exist in imagination!

you can imagine ANYTHING no matter what’s going on outside of you!!!

remember how you used to imagine you and your crush together? without expectations? without worries or anything? that’s how you’re supposed to imagine. imagine what you truly want and fulfill yourself in imagination ONLY.

your only job is giving it to yourself in imagination. your only job is changing self, how do you change self? by changing imagination.

tip: you can switch your state (aka give it to yourself in imagination) using methods like visualization/scripting/affirmations/sats

persist in your new state

once you gave it to yourself in imagination your job is done, now all you have to do is persist in your new state TO FEEL good simply because you don’t deserve to live in desire in your own mind.

you don’t persist to make it dominant or anything like that, you persist because it makes you feel good, you persist because you understand you’re a figment of God and you don’t deserve to live in desire.

whenever your desire naturally comes to mind or whenever you happen to notice lack pay attention to your awareness and realize it’s just your old state, don’t be mad at yourself, simply remember that now you have it in imagination and you can access your desire whenever you want.

THE END. IT’S DONE. YOUR JOB IS FINISHED.

what happens now is that your imagination (God) will find a way to make it happen in the outer world in the most natural and best way possible.

you’re NOT supposed to:

- worry about the how.

- worry about the when.

- worry about the means.

Edward Art:

“I do not argue the point, I do not try to figure out how it will happen, which means are needed, I do not wonder if it’s possible, I do not wonder when or feel fear whether or not it will work, I remove past and future and remove grudges.

I just experience being.”

a simplified states guide:

a longer much more detailed vers of this will be out soon! (once i'm through my regularly scheduled bout of executive dysfunction!) REMINDERS: - THOUGHTS ARE JUST THAT -> THOUGHTS. NOTHING ELSE! STOP GIVING YOUR THOUGHTS SO MUCH POWER BBY! <3 - IT'S OKAY TO FEEL! IN FACT LET YOURSELF SPIRAL AND CRY! HOW CAN THAT TAKE AWAY SOMETHING YOU ALREADY HAVE??

what tf is even a state kaeya?

states = who you are being, identifying yourself as or to put it simply -> the mindset if u already had what u wanted and NO you don't need to stay in the state 24/7 (that creates a more fearful state in itself)

states can also be considered your perceptions as well as how you're observing the world around you!

how do you put yourself into the state?

just decide, that's it. just decide that you have it bc u do in ur imagination (which is ur real reality) and u don't have to do anything bc each state comes w it's own self concept, beliefs, assumptions and experiences.

what if you fall out of it?

it's okay! you did nothing wrong! just self soothe via eft tapping, meditating, whatever u want and just get back on it, it's not gonna just magically poof away bc u fell outta the state key here is stability - focus on stabilizing urself by trying to relax however that might be and then just hop back on! <3

How do you know you're out of the state kaeya?

you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts, you might feel generally anxious or just might not feel like you can control the 3D. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS (as I explained above). they are NOT what manifests, IT IS YOUR STATE THAT DOES! they have no power over you unless you give them power and you don't give them the power to do so since u create your own reality!

don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few random ass thoughts that you don't accept as true and your identity can't manifest! HOW? how can they manifest when 1. you haven't identified those random thoughts to be fact and 2. you identify with what you already WANT/HAVE!

TO GET BACK INTO THE STATE: intend (set the intention of going back or wanting to go back into the state of the wish fulfilled) and decide you're back into it again!

what if I spiral? have opposing thoughts? cry??

how.. is that gonna affect ur state? how will that affect ur identity? ur still the person that has it/god of ur reality and spiraling and all that doesn't do anything because you decide that it doesn't + emotions don't manifest because you've decided that you have it already as a fact! how is salt water gonna affect it babes? ✩ KEY TIP: if you're someone who has been affected with trauma, is ND, has mental health issues -> PLEASE be gentle with yourself and let yourself feel!

feelings??

feelings does NOT = emotions

feeling = accepting ur desire as yours

feeling is just knowing that it's already yours and living it! it's natural!

and if you feel like you're not "desiring" your desire -> the reason u may feel like you've stopped "desiring it" is because it feels natural to u now! let's say u wanted to buy something you've wanted for a while now, u bought it and that "spark" stays with u for about a week, afterwards u won't feel like that bc it's natural now!

and YES, you can use whatever the fuck method u want to get into the state, that depends on u and what makes u happy. hell, you could literally manifest by eating 2 bags of cheetos and thinking that it'll get you whatever you want because you decided and ASSUMED that it will. it's not abt the methods or the techniques, it's abt what you assume/decide

the whole thing about states = you already have it and identifying with having it

do I need to repeat affs? work on self concept? healing??

nope, would u be repeating affs if u already had it? would you have to work on sc if u already had it? and no you don't need to heal because if you already had it would you be worrying about ANY of that?

AND AGAIN, if you're someone who's gone through any of the factors I talked about from the key tip above and you think that doing any of those will HELP you and it makes you happy -> do it then babes, you're doing so well and I'm so proud of you <3

the 3d?

doesn't matter, never has and never will because the the 3d is just a reflection of ur 4d, it calms u down. when u live in having the desire already, it's done and u don't have to worry abt anything. it's a reflection of ur beliefs and who you are being.

you DO NOT and I repeat DO N O T have to do any methods to get into the state it's literally just deciding it's yours and that u have it and moving on w/ ur day bc it's already happened.

what if I have a bad day? weeks?

that's okay, that's genuinely okay. let yourself feel because ur always allowed to feel. don't ignore those, acknowledge them and instead of beating yourself up for it, give it some love and know that it's not gonna affect anything

why? bc if ur the god of ur reality, how will salt water and hours of being sad take away something u already have? you DECIDED that u have it so u have it period.

logic??

babes, when tf has logical thinking been a part of manifesting?? people have literally manifested wings and their cancers away (hell, I've manifested a penis even though i'm biologically female overnight)

logic doesn't affect god bc they override logic!

what if? how will it happen and when?

that's not your concern, god doesn't concern themselves over the how or the when when it's already done. it's not our job to mess with the middle, that's not living in the end/wish fulfilled. go to the end and go straight to it, that's it

you are the only operant power! only you! YOU CREATE! don't mess with the middle! if you wanna be married to sp, don't identify with getting proposed first, then the wedding, then the honeymoon if you're in that already then u don't have to worry abt the middle bc u have it -> just go straight into the state of being already married (bonus points if it's 3-4 months into the marriage)!

you can literally imagine a ring on your finger as well as well as things that conclude that you two are ALREADY married!

so yeah, just don't worry abt opposing thoughts and all that because you don't identify w it since ur living in your new life already.