Something You Definitely Need

by our dear པོ་ལ @effortless.being on IG🙌🏻🤍

dark feminine habits

1. ᴍᴀꜱᴛᴇʀʙᴀᴛᴇ. give yourself permission to feel pleasure. it release stress from your body.

2. get naked. dance naked. sleep naked. look at you body in the mirror. soak in a bath. moisturize your skin. get a massage.

3. tell people no. if it’s not a hell yes, don’t waste your time. you have free will to do as you please. you are not a slave.

4. have pride in yourself and your achievements. set goals. accept compliments. own your confidence. shine.

5. flirt. it’s fun.

6. do shadow work. at the end of your day, take time to reflect on your mistakes and write down ways to make progress. this helps you understand your fears and guilts. journal. introspection.

7. don’t go along with anything that feels wrong to you. be assertive and don’t be afraid to cut someone off or cause a scene when your boundaries are crossed.

8. work your brain. do puzzles. reads books. learn about seduction. develop a skill. take time to daydream. visually manifest.

9. be daring. wear a sexy outfit or bold makeup look. show cleavage. follow your dreams. break routine. speak your mind. shock the people around you and ignore their judgements.

10. release timidity. stop overly apologizing, stuttering and overthinking. say exactly what you mean. feel exactly how you feel. banish all forms of guilt and shame.

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Why don't you have your manifestations yet?

Well, I'd say about 90% of the reason why you don't have your desires is because you haven't persisted at all.

What is persisting you ask me? It's just continuing to think stuff in your favor regardless of what you see in the 3D.

People go "Oh-I've been persisting since July or August or sth" but the truth is that if you'd actually persist, you wouldn't be checking the time because you already had it. And to be saying that you'd been persisting since so long but the results you got were the minimum, maybe you didn't persist at all.

Persisting is very easy. Every time you're thinking of your desires and the negative thoughts come creeping in, change your thoughts to something that aligns with your desired reality. Just don't entertain the negative thoughts.

That's it. It is as simple as that. You might find it fake or just something unbelievable. But as you go on around with the desired thoughts, they'll feel more real and natural. So, every time you have a negative thought, flip it to a positive one. Manifestation seems easy and it sure is, but you need to be disciplined. You might just have a rough day and stuff, but at the end of the day if you just go on persisting and not giving power to your unwanted thoughts, you'll manifest the life you desire.

Doing all those self love, self concept is fun and actually beneficial but it is COMPLETELY OPTIONAL. You can 100% manifest without them. All you have to do is change the thoughts of your mind.

I can't stress this enough. If do all things but at the end of the day just go around searching for signs and just wavering, I'm sorry it'll probably take a lot of time. Change your thoughts, believe me like for a day or so just think everything in your favor and watch how things change around.

Whatever you see in 3D is just your thoughts you'd persisted on. So change the thoughts, change the 3D.

✨How to live your ENTIRE life in the end!!!

Listen up, my loves... this is really the key to living an ecstatic, fulfilled life where all your dreams come true!!!

You have to realize 4D is part of your real life.

If something happened in your 4D (imagination), then it truly happened... it REALLY happened. Because you EXPERIENCED it. The time you take to imagine something is real time. It wasn't "special 4D time" where time doesn't pass. If you started imagining something at 4:00 and finished at 4:15, bringing your awareness back to 3D, it will be 4:15. Therefore, is that imagining not happening in your real life? Of course it is, it can't happen anywhere else.

Let's say you imagine a scene with your SP for 15 minutes. You were living your life in those 15 minutes. That was your real life. You were experiencing an experience in real time, in your real life. You didn't leave your "real life" behind for 15 minutes. That WAS part of your REAL life. That was an experience you had.

The problem is that most people will daydream and then snap out of it and think, "Oh, that wasn't real. That was just my imagination." Excuse me? Where were you just now? In somebody else's body, living someone else's life? Or were you still YOU, in your body, living your life, passing your time?

If you think of imagination as "not real" then you are telling your mind not to print that out in your 3D. That print job has now been cancelled. It will instead sort through your thoughts and display into your 3D the ones that you deem "real". It will filter out your desire-fulfilling daydreams (because you think they're fake) and instead show you other things that you think about that you believe are real (mostly the crap you don't want but "think" is real).

That is why people experience 4D and 3D separately. They experience imagination as a fake escape and 3D as reality, and their dreams don't come true in the physical realm because they think one is real and one is fantasy. They struggle with "trying" to manifest and continue to fail to see their imagination become physical because they aren't accepting imagination as real TOO.

I don't believe 4D is your only reality, like some people say, because 3D is real too. Anywhere you are is your reality. 4D and 3D are equally real. You are experiencing both of them, so they have to both be real. 3D is just a replay where you get to experience things AGAIN.

You are here to experience BOTH 3D AND 4D! (Obviously, because we do!) We have both imagination and physical bodies! There is nothing wrong with wanting your 4D imaginings to replicate in the 3D. That is why we have human bodies! I am not telling you to forget about the 3D and live solely in the 4D. We have 5 senses to experience physical pleasure through them! So you ARE meant to experience ALL of your wildest dreams in the 3D too!

(Like you are crazy if you think I'm not getting my kisses and squeezes from my SP happening to my physical body - because that's why I have a body - to experience physical pleasure with it (eating delicious food, seeing gorgeous sights, smelling wonderful scents, listening to beautiful music, feeling pleasurable physical affection, etc.!)

I am not telling you to forget wanting things in the 3D! But you do have to acknowledge that what you experience in 4D is JUST AS REAL as what you experience in 3D because it was really you living that! Those 15 minutes were real, they were spent doing something, how is that not real? Nothing you do can be fake!!! You can't escape living, so whatever you do during your time here on Earth is REAL.

So you can never lack what you want. Whatever you desire, give it to yourself immediately. Your desires are meant to be felt and immediately fulfilled. You are not meant to be walking around wishing you had things. You are meant to experience fulfilled desire after fulfilled desire. You're not supposed to accumulate desires so they're all piled up and you're feeling heaps of lack.

Never go to sleep with unfulfilled desires. Whatever you want to have happened that day (whether you just didn't get it or you got the opposite), give it to yourself in imagination until you feel you really experienced it. Don't do it to manifest it in 3D. Do it to experience it in your life. Sometimes it will manifest into 3D and sometimes it won't. If you do it right you will know, because it won't matter to you whether it appears in 3D anymore because you will have satisfied that desire already. You will feel like you already experienced it (because you did!) and you will no longer feel that it hasn't happened yet, because you remember it happening!

Stop trying to manifest things in 3D, and start giving yourself everything you want in your imagination. There is nothing stopping you from living your wildest dreams. Nothing is impossible to you in your imagination. Don't condition your desires, just go into your imagination and give yourself all of your desires. Do it whenever a desire springs up. Get so good at it that your whole life is made up of fulfilling your heart's desires as soon as they come upon you.

You can always control what you think about. So when you think of something you want, imagine getting it exactly how you want to. And when you have fully experienced it, it will then become a MEMORY, not a desire!

The goal is to have NO unfulfilled desires, because you should be fulfilling them as soon as they come to you. You will lead such a magical inner life. Your 3D can ONLY show you the contents of your consciousness... so soon enough, you will be seeing your 3D transform into a fairy tale of your own making. If ALL you think about, all you imagine, is experiencing your fulfilled desires, then that's ALL your 3D can show you. You are giving it no other options!

You no longer have to "try" to live in the end for each of your desires to "try" to manifest them. You will be living in the end of ALL of your desires, every single one, big or small, at all times! That will just be how you automatically live your whole life.

Do not deny yourself ANYTHING. Whatever you want, you can have. There are NO limitations to your imagination. Do NOT hold back. I'll say it again. DO NOT HOLD BACK. Do not limit your imagination to what you think is likely or possible. You know what you want. Your desires come to you in the perfect condition. Do not change your desires to what your current 3D implies is possible. YOU decide what is possible. Dream your wildest dreams. If you can think it, if you can desire it, then you can fulfill it in your imagination. And if you flood your imagination with nothing but fulfilled desires, and you KNOW your 4D experiences are real, then your 3D will have no choice but to show you fulfilled desires in your physical realm.

I swear to god if I wrote all this out and y'all don't start living the lives of your dreams...

Recently a sweet Anon asked me if I'd like to convert some items from @serenity-cc's amazing Year Of The Rabbit collection and I really really liked these two dresses, so here they are! 🌱

The dresses are top-only ('cause that's something new I've learned how to do and with a little better joints than usual thanks to @platinumaspiration ♥) so you can pair them with whichever shoes you'd like! 🦝

Also there are two hairstyles by @imvikai cause I thought they were cute! 🦔

Magnolia dress (AF, both morphs, ten swatches, 3,329 polys)

Jing v2 (AF, both morphs, ten swatches, 1,949 polys)

Miyu hair (AF-CU, 4 colors binned, animated, 3,158 polys)

Hana hair (AF-TF, 4 colors binned, animated, 3,918 polys)

Everything's compressed, enjoy! ♥

download (sfs) // alt download (mediafire)

Self Concept is literally the only thing you need besties

I've known about manifesting for a few years but I've only started consciously manifesting a few months ago. Now, I didn't "succeed" in manifesting until about a month ago when I realized Self Concept is literally the most important thing (and the only thing you truly need).

For the past few months, I've been stalking loa blogs because I wanted to learn more and I liked reading success stories. Thankfully I didn't rely on them but they did make me feel better. But through those months I noticed the one thing consistently successful manifestors had in common was they all had good self concepts and it was the one thing they were constantly preaching that very few people actually practiced.

So many of these blogs constantly get asks about whether it's possible to manifest something or how to manifest by a certain time or how to manifest when you feel like shit and it's like. I'm surprised any of them have the patience!

Please, realize the power you have. You are all you need to manifest. You are the universe. You are God. You can use methods but you don't need them. You can constantly affirm but you don't need to. All you need to manifest everything you want every time you want is to have a good self concept. That's all! You don't need anything else!!

Having a good self concept isn't just "being confident". It's recognizing that you are the creator of your universe and you can do whatever you want with it. It's knowing that you have everything you want. It's recognizing how powerful you are and how nothing can stop you. You want 10 million dollars? Baby, you already have it. You want only designer clothing and a cute partner that spoils you rotten? Just say the word and it's yours!

You don't need to put in any extra work to get a good self concept so don't use that as a demotivator either! Literally just say that you do. The only thing I did was affirm that I have the best self concept and guess what? I had that shit in a day. I no longer feel the need to relentlessly scroll through my favorite loa blogs or listen to subs or read success stories to hype myself up. I don't feel like I need to get into the void or recite affirmations. The past three weeks have been amazing for me. And I know it's only going to get better.

It is so freeing to have a good self concept. You may have doubts occasionally, that's normal. But they go away so quickly because you know better. When the 3D shows the opposite, you don't panic or get discouraged. You don't force yourself to do whatever method people are hyping up because you know you don't need it. You just overall feel more confident, more assured, more calm, more like the God you are.

You guys need to stop relying on other people and outside sources to manifest. If you've been on loablr for even a week then you already have everything you need to manifest! Aka. Yourself. Work on your self concept babes. I promise you, it's not a waste of time. It's not another random method. This is literally the only thing you need.

If you need more convincing, here. Again, I started "working on" (I say working as if I didn't just get it instantly alhgajdhg) my self concept a little under a month ago. Since then, this is what I've manifested:

-My mom bringing home food. This one is actually a really good example of how your subconscious knows everything. I originally was affirming she would bring home mcdonalds but I knew I didn't really want that and I was only thinking about what the cheapest thing was. I didn't know what I wanted her to bring home, but guess what! She still brought home exactly what I really wanted.

-My mom having more money over the holiday season. We've always had an issue with money (ehe not anymore dumb 3d bitch) so I manifested us having no issues during the holidays. Not only did we eat at a fancier restaurant, we bought food and gifts multiple times over two weeks. We also just had a lot of fun in general 😌

-A family member being healthy. I don't want to get into too much detail but essentially, someone in my family had a health scare. It was looking bad at the time but I manifested that they would be fine. And they were!

-An ask being sent to a different blog! This was a topic that I wanted to talk about for years but I wanted to do it in the form of someone asking. (I wasn't even consciously manifesting this one! Another example of your subconscious being That Bitch.)

-My favorite sub maker to release a sub specifically about self concept and empowerment (which I don't even need to use now akdaljgd).

-My mom having more energy and being healthier

-Got rid of intense back pain (and being sick!). I got a little sick last week and at one point my entire back hurt so much that I could barely move. Some affs later and it was almost entirely gone (completely gone the next day).

-More followers and interaction on my main. Haven't posted in a month and yet I'm still gaining at a steady rate

-A family member's partner being a really good person and loving them the way they deserve

-My hair not getting greasy as fast

-Safer neighborhood

-Seeing more angel numbers (first as a test and now just because I like them)

-My mom's work not bringing a bunch of people back in while we're still in the middle of a panini (might just manifest that away too cause why not)

-My friend getting her gift, finally. I sent it to her weeks ago and we were both scared it got lost. Last night I affirmed that it didn't get lost and that she would literally get it the next day. This morning she texted me about getting it :)

-And more that I can't remember rn!

Again, this was all under a month. I haven't gotten into the void. I don't religiously listen to subs. I only affirm when I wake up and before I go to sleep, so basically sats (and even then it's a couple of affs, not a whole book). I only check my favorite loa blogs cause I like to keep up with them. Success stories are more like feel good "you go bestie" things for me not motivators to manifest. This is literally just what it's like to have a good self concept. And that is so easy to obtain.

Anyway, here are some posts that really helped me: one, two, three

There's nothing stopping you from having everything you want! Work on your self concept and I promise everything will fall into place the way you want it to.

HOW TO STOP SELF SABOTAGING + DOUBTING

MAKE YOUR GOALS/HABITS AN IDENTITY. Your lifestyle makes up who you are, quite literally. If you want to wake up early, then start identifying yourself as an early bird. If you want to get good grades, then start identifying yourself as a studious student. And so on. 

This helps with feeling more accountable and committed to our goals and habits. However, don’t use this as a reason to overexert yourself. 

THERE IS SOMETHING UNDERNEATH CERTAIN BEHAVIOURS. All of your bad habits stem from your subconscious. This is why mentally healthy people tend to think more about their physical health. 

The best way to recognise patterns beneath your bad habits is just to talk to yourself. In any way or any form. Identify it, see what might’ve caused this subconscious thought and then work towards a way to replace the feeling that these bad habits give with a good one. 

DETACH FROM THE OUTCOME. The more you fixate on the long-term results, the more longer, strenuous and exhausting your journey is going to be, especially because you’re going to want to give up as soon as results don’t appear. Focus on the short-term results. 

You exercised? Now you feel good inside. You studied hard and understood everything? Great job for being so productive. You did that one really scary thing? What a great start!

THE PART OF YOU THAT DOES BAD HABITS IS NOT BAD. It is the complete opposite of bad. It loves you and wants to keep you safe, so it refrains you from doing anything ‘scary’ (which is typically new things in our lives) and makes you fall back on ‘safe’ habits which are a coping mechanism. 

So, instead of berating that part of you that participates in bad habits even if you know it’s bad, understand it. As these coping mechanisms usually stem from our childhoods, we turn to these habits when we feel stressed, anxious or depressed. 

easy tips to be your best version before 2023

this is my little gift to you! if you needed a guide or ideas on how to get started here it is! it is very simple and it will help you to create routines and get improvements in your life 🤍

things to do before the end of the year

incorporate small healthy habits into your routine

replace bad foods with healthier ones

go to sleep an hour earlier than you usually do and wake up an hour earlier

start the day with gratitude, meditate and be thankful for what you have

exercise 3 times a week

focus on what you like about yourself and what is within your power to change right now

create a skincare routine (day and night)

put on a face mask once a week

start taking care of your hair

take time for yourself before going to sleep, relax, forgetting the worries of the day

listen to podcasts that motivate you to be the best version of you

install an application on your phone to help you organize your day

keep track of your days and always get organized before the next day

be more aware of who you are and your surroundings

change your internal dialogue for a more positive one

stay focused on your goals

tidy up your room

drink plenty of water a day, and carry a bottle of water with you at all times

get rid of things that no longer benefit you or are bad for you

organize your cell phone

spend less time on social media and when you do, watch motivational content (e.g. my blog)

feel pretty

start acting the way you want to be

treat others the way you want to be treated (e.g. kindness and respect).

set new goals for 2023 and continue with all of this in your life.

how to “manifest”

in this post i’m not gonna go into the theory behind manifestation and law of assumption and imagination and i’m gonna focus on practically what to do to manifest something you want.

if you want to know WHY you manifest like this you’re just gonna have to go and read my other posts.

this is gonna be a PRACTICAL guide to manifestation and it’s gonna be the simplest thing ever.

i’m not gonna go too deep into the theory behind this as i have other posts for that, i’m gonna provide you a nice simple guide which can be useful for when you’re feeling like you’re deep into overconsumption.

back to the basics

define your desire:

this is key because you have to be clear on what you want, if this takes you time to fully understand what is your end goal don’t worry, take your time and understand what it’s your truest desire, what is that you REALLY want.

leave the world alone:

once you have decided what your desire is now you need to leave behind all the reasons why you can’t have your desire.

for example: you want a car BUT you don’t have any money, your parents won’t buy it for you.

your only job here is fulfilling yourself in imagination leaving all the reasons why you can’t have your desire in the 3D, any reason why you can’t have it logically does not matter at all because you’re never supposed to create anything in the 3D or make it happen there. forget all the reasons why you can’t have it because there is no 3D in imagination.

you can imagine anything!

fulfill yourself in imagination:

once you disregarded all the reasons why you think your desire can’t be yours and you realized your only job is to have it in imagination you can fulfill yourself.

the 3D does not exist in imagination!

you can imagine ANYTHING no matter what’s going on outside of you!!!

remember how you used to imagine you and your crush together? without expectations? without worries or anything? that’s how you’re supposed to imagine. imagine what you truly want and fulfill yourself in imagination ONLY.

your only job is giving it to yourself in imagination. your only job is changing self, how do you change self? by changing imagination.

tip: you can switch your state (aka give it to yourself in imagination) using methods like visualization/scripting/affirmations/sats

persist in your new state

once you gave it to yourself in imagination your job is done, now all you have to do is persist in your new state TO FEEL good simply because you don’t deserve to live in desire in your own mind.

you don’t persist to make it dominant or anything like that, you persist because it makes you feel good, you persist because you understand you’re a figment of God and you don’t deserve to live in desire.

whenever your desire naturally comes to mind or whenever you happen to notice lack pay attention to your awareness and realize it’s just your old state, don’t be mad at yourself, simply remember that now you have it in imagination and you can access your desire whenever you want.

THE END. IT’S DONE. YOUR JOB IS FINISHED.

what happens now is that your imagination (God) will find a way to make it happen in the outer world in the most natural and best way possible.

you’re NOT supposed to:

- worry about the how.

- worry about the when.

- worry about the means.

Edward Art:

“I do not argue the point, I do not try to figure out how it will happen, which means are needed, I do not wonder if it’s possible, I do not wonder when or feel fear whether or not it will work, I remove past and future and remove grudges.

I just experience being.”

basics of loa

-what is law of assumption?

it's a law that states that everything you assume to be true has no choice but to be true. so basically, your assumptions form the world, your assumptions are the reason for the creation of any and everything in this world. you can assume lions are blue in colour and you'd see evidence for that assumption. let's take some examples from your life, what is the colour of your hair? black/brown/blonde/ginger/pink/purple/green/blue/etc., see how your hair colour is the colour you assume it is? that's loa. if you assumed it was a different colour, you'd see evidence in the physical or the 3 dimensional reality of your hair being the colour you assume it is. it can seem fake at first because of logic but i promise you, it's not! try it out for yourself, like manifest seeing a certain colour or a fruit, an animal, food, a person etc. it is real and it works for EVERYONE.

-what does it mean to assume?/how to assume?

to assume in loa is simply the same as the word means independently. "suppose to be the case, without proof" (google definition), that's all it is. you simply suppose that it's the case even without physical proof, just yet. your assumptions form your world so if you assume something even without any legitimate proof in the 3d, it has no choice but to eventually show up in the 3d. how long it takes for it to show up depends - again - on your beliefs or assumptions. to make it easier to not get demotivated by not having visible proof in the physical reality, it's good to have the assumption that it doesn't take very long for your assumptions to materialize in the 3d. your constant thoughts build your assumptions, all your thoughts are affirmations (affirm and assume can be interchanged in context of loassumption). for example if you constantly keep thinking that you're ugly, it becomes an assumption, so even if you weren't ugly to begin with (in your standards of what you consider ugly), this assumptions hardens itself into a fact in the physical reality by making you match your standards of what ugly is. want proof? remember how the self degradation fb memes became trending in the beginning of the pandemic, if you read those and agreed with the self degradation constantly, im pretty sure you must have started feeling those things show up in the 3d even if they weren't originally there. happened with me and a lot of others. so how do you assume? you think, that's literally all. it's just that simple.

all you need to do to manifest is affirm and persist.

-what does persist mean?

to persist is to stick to the new story or assumption and not look back to the old one. it does not mean that you have to affirm 24/7, it means that you dont affirm AGAINST what you're manifesting and simply STICK TO THE NEW STORY. "continue in an opinion or course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition" (google definition) KEEP GOING, do not look back to the old story so often that your old story is the one you end up manifesting again. STICK TO THE NEW STORY.

-methods

you don't need any methods, all you have to do is assume you have whatever it is you want and persist. THAT IS ALL. if you do enjoy methods or challenges, you can find them all over the community. the most popular methods are probably subliminals and scripting. you can make challenges for yourself so they cater to your needs.