But When You Close Your Eyes, May You Remember

A friendly reminder to USians: if you are planning to vote on Election Day, your mantra is "Nothing I see today convinces me not to go vote."

Exit polls suggest DT cannot be caught? YOU STILL GO VOTE.

Exit polls suggest KH has it in the bag? YOU STILL GO VOTE.

Pundits are saying the country is swinging overwhelmingly red? YOU STILL GO VOTE.

Pundits are saying the country is swinging overwhelmingly blue? YOU STILL GO VOTE.

Polls can be misleading (intentionally or not). The methodology can be biased (or simply poor). Early results may not reflect what the full count will show. There may be a red mirage. NOTHING YOU SEE CONVINCES YOU NOT TO VOTE.

The biggest Democratic win in swing states means nothing if democrats don't turn out everywhere to keep the reliably blue states blue.

VOTE. Wear appropriate weather gear if you think you may have to stand in a line outside (coat, hat, gloves, umbrella, sunhat, whatever, you know where you live). Bring water and a snack and something to do (book, game on your phone, podcast and headphones, whatever, you know what you like). GO VOTE.

NOTHING YOU SEE ON ELECTION DAY CONVINCES YOU NOT TO VOTE.

How to Forgive Yourself

1. Recognise the importance of forgiving yourself. Not forgiving yourself will deplete your energy, and leave you feeling all chewed up inside. It keeps you living in the past instead of living in the present – so it’s hard to make the most of what’s happening today.

2. Recognise the effects of not forgiving yourself. Those negative emotions like shame and regret are also bad for our long term health – as they undermine and damage a healthy immune system.

3. Name the emotions you are struggling with. Simply naming your emotions can help reduce their power. It brings some order and control into our lives again when we’re hit by overwhelming and negative emotions.

4. Reflect on the fact that we all make mistakes, make foolish decisions and act badly at times. It’s part of being human – you’re an imperfect person. We all do stupid things, and say some things that we regret.

5. Try to let go of other people’s expectations. We can’t please everyone – it’s not going to happen. Decide on your own standards, then try to live by them. Also, if you’re looking for approval you’ll never measure up as you’ll always meet someone who will criticise and judge.

6. Practise self-forgiveness. It’s healthy to acknowledge the regrets that you have – but then you need to be willing to let go of the past – and decide to move forwards - and live life differently.

The Japril scene has reached almost 50.000 views in 3 hours. The last scene with Meredith and all those flashbacks is still at 18.000.

Get rid of them, destroying YEARS of history and let April get married in front of Jackson was just the delusional thinking of a very petty person.

Krista was typing that kiss into the script throwing up and crying I just know it.

Jesse literally said: Japril endgame or you'll never see my ass on that set again.

He flew from NY to LA in his 1 day off only to give us that kiss. He really is our captain.

Japril Nation, at last, we won.

@japril @doctorkepner @i-may-have-a-point @themoonorchid

CALL FOR A GREY’S ANATOMY BOYCOTT #ForKepzona

This is so fucking wrong! Not only has grey’s anatomy written off April Kepner in order to make a ship NO ONE FUCKING WANTS happen, THEY HAVE ALSO FIRED JESSICA CAPSHAW WHO PLAYS ARIZONA ROBBINS, AKA ONE OF THE FIRST TV LESBIANS

THIS IS UNFAIR TO THE ACTORS WHO HAVE HAD ONLY 2 DAYS TO PROCESS THIS AND THE CHARACTERS, NOT TO MENTION THE FANS

WE ARE NOT STANDING FOR THIS BULLSHIT ANYMORE

WE’VE BEEN WATCHING THESE TWO AMAZING WOMEN BUILD A FRIENDSHIP TOGETHER FOR YEARS AND THE FACT THAT SOMEONE CAN JUST FIRE THEM BECAUSE OF A CREATOR’S PET IS INSULTING

THIS SHOW IS ALREADY TERRIBLE, BUT WITHOUT THEM IT WILL BE UNBEARABLE

KEPZONA IS THE ONLY GOOD PART OF THIS AWFUL SHOW

FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU, SHONDA. NEXT WEEK, LET’S NOT WATCH THIS SHIT

PLEASE DO THIS FOR THE JAPRIL FANDOM. PLEASE BE VOCAL ON TWITTER. THEY’LL HAVE TO LISTEN TO US

THEY THINK THEY CAN WALK ALL OVER US AND WE’LL JUST KEEP WATCHING. WELL, THAT’S OVER

@icantmovethesemountainsforyou @koffeinjunkie84 @montanasituation @eelk @carigros @minttobe @japrilforthewin @japrilfan22 @thekepnermethod

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Wtf was that nonsense?

That finale was some bulllllshit! I'm not ready to process that utter garbage yet so I'm just going to pretend it didn't happen and distract myself with something else. Denial is the first stage of grief, right?? Completely healthy and normal.

I love how Lincoln is making such a "Link" face! 😉

ATTENTION

rhett mclaughlin is a beautiful man and i love him very much

that is all