AITAH - Blog Posts
Y’all know what I hate? People arguing about what ship is more valid or what ship is toxic or expressing their UNDYING hate towards a ship. It’s ridiculous. People can like what they like—why does it have to turn into a battle every time? It’s one thing to have opinions, but tearing each other apart over fictional characters? That’s just a waste of energy.
Ships are personal. Some people see chemistry in one dynamic, others see it somewhere else. And that’s fine. What’s not fine is when people start attacking each other like their opinion is the only right one. It’s fiction. It’s meant to be enjoyed, not fought over like it’s life or death.
At the end of the day, no one’s forcing you to like a ship. Just don’t be a jerk about it.
Edit: Also coming from someone who ships a little bit of everything this is very important to me (╯︵╰,)
AITAH?
For extra context, neither of us have actually dated anyone before so this was our first date.
I(female, teenager) have been talking with a boy in my class. He's nice, compliments me often, and has met my mom on our first date(she was chaperoning and he was pretty cool about it). He's a genuinely nice guy who seems to actually like me. However, he hasn't shown any interest in anything I haven't mentioned except for cars. He doesn't talk about his own interests, instantly shifts or derails his opinion to match mine, and only really answers questions that agree with things I've said. I'll be blunt and say that I'm a rather intelligent girl and that he's a little dull. I feel like he's shifting himself so that I like him more. I can see myself in a happy relationship with him but at the same time can only see myself dulling my intelligence to be more on his level. My mom has told me that he doesn't seem like he'll stimulate my brain in the way she knows I want and need. I don't know what to do because I like him but I feel like he's changing himself into someone I'd like more.
I took care of my friend when he was sick and hurting. I missed school to stay with him. I gave him medicines, I got him food and water (went to the store and got him Gatorade) and I let him sleep in my bed. And I told him I would stay with him till he got better.
He called me a bastard because I 'kicked him out' while he was still sick.
So that day my family was having a bbq, and I wanted to go but I didn't know if I should have left him at my apartment because I didn't know if my roommate would have said something about him being there when I wasnt. I thought this was reasonable.
He said he would go to someone else's place, he even texted and asked them if he could go and they said yeah. So he left, and I even offered to drive him there and then when he was feeling better, he can come back and get his truck.
He said I was kind of a bastard for kicking him out.
What?
What.