Reminder that it's perfectly okay to have kinks, wants, and thoughts. It's okay to like something or think about doing something that might not be considered morally acceptable by the majority of people.
Wanting ≠ Doing
Thinking ≠ Doing
You could think "I want to kill somebody", but you know for a fact you're not GOING to. You could think "God I really want to kill myself" but you know for a fact you're not GOING to. You could think "I want to hurt myself and/or hurt others" but you know for a fact you're not GOING to.
Don't feel ashamed about your kinks or thoughts or anything. You're not going to hurt somebody by just thinking or fantasising, and you shouldn't be hated for it either.
This also goes for roleplaying in bed, roleplaying the topic online, consuming media that contains fictional representation of the topics, or imagining it while you're doing something. If your kink is something illegal (the popular kinks are) or something that people would shun you for, then doing any of the above is fine since you're not encouraging it in real life, and you're not DOING it.
Reminder that your sexuality just. Comes naturally. I'm sure you've been told this before but like SERIOUSLY, no matter what life you live, you can turn queer as soon as you hit puberty.
Cut to me, regular straight child. I think "haha I'm definitely straight" even though I've never had any interest in men. I turn 8 and go through violent puberty (I developed early lol) and h o l y s h i t why are all the women and femboys so hot what the fuck
I didn't even know what sexuality WAS or even what LGBTQIA+ was, I was a Christian "straight" cis child. And all of a sudden I couldn't even look at anybody remotely feminine without feeling my stomach turn.
So tbh I think it happens either way. Or I was just a little bit too silly, that too
Reminder that it's perfectly fine to transition into a femboy. You're a woman and you want that allure that appeals to the majority of sexualities? Go ahead. You don't have to transition into being a jacked up testosterone man, you can identify as a man and still look like a woman. Nobody's going to stop you. If they do I'll cry and then they'll be distracted by my crying and you can sneak away while they're distracted. Like a movie villain
Also a fun fact, if anyone is REALLY set on knowing your birth gender, they're not a good person. Somebody in the community or an ally outside of it would NOT be asking. It's a huge red flag to be caught up on what you were born as, just saying.
Reminder that you don't HAVE to tell anyone your birth sex. I've lied about it my entire life, I've never been happier to not be bound to a set of expected chromosomes, hormones, cycles, or genitalia. I've never been happier to see them tear themselves apart trying to find out how to misgender me.
They look to my chest, there's breasts. So I must be a girl?
But they look to my pants, there's balls. So I must be a boy?
Nope, nope, nope. They can't get me if they don't know me, I will forever be out of the mold. Do the same
(if you want to, telling people is fine obviously I'm just very dramatic)
Reminder that you don't HAVE to tell anyone your birth sex. I've lied about it my entire life, I've never been happier to not be bound to a set of expected chromosomes, hormones, cycles, or genitalia. I've never been happier to see them tear themselves apart trying to find out how to misgender me.
They look to my chest, there's breasts. So I must be a girl?
But they look to my pants, there's balls. So I must be a boy?
Nope, nope, nope. They can't get me if they don't know me, I will forever be out of the mold. Do the same
(if you want to, telling people is fine obviously I'm just very dramatic)
Another reminder for you all, the whole "There's so many more gay and trans people now, something is SURELY corrupting everyone!" just... Isn't true.
It's the same thing as the 2018-2020's "Autism pandemic" where a lot more people were diagnosed with Autism and everyone was panicking because "There's so many more autistic people now, something is SURELY corrupting everyone!" was all over the news. But, it turns out that's only because they actually RESEARCHED. They actually spent TIME on autistics, and it became more acceptable to be autistic.
The same thing happened with atheism, the same "There's so many more atheists now, something is SURELY corrupting everyone!" was spread about to target every minority and children's entertainment source.
It's the same argument. It always has been. It's not that everyone is being corrupted, your child isn't going to randomly turn gay or trans. It's just that you won't get executed by the law for being in LGBTQIIA+ anymore.
The kids will be fine.
Just a reminder that you don't need to feel bad about not getting top surgery as a trans guy. There are cis men with bigger tits you'll be fine