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Soft and Safe
I have a friend, let's call her Soft and Safe.
Let's call her that because it's shorter than Fluttering butterflies and excited hands waving, lilac purple capris and silk blouse, also soft ripped jeans and oversize hoodie. It's shorter than the Life of the party, social butterfly, but also sleepover deep talk.
She was the first one to fully support me when I came out as bi. She's still the one I feel most comfortable telling my insecurities to.
She's physically beautiful, yes, with brown curls and doe eyes, but more like her soul would make any body beautiful, you get it? It really doesn't matter how she looks. Does that make sense?
I know Soft and Safe doesn't see herself this way, so this is my way of telling her. A Tumblr post she'll never see.
Because all Soft and Safe sees is her flat chest and her acne prone skin. All she sees is that she was asked to the ball last in dance class last year. She was recently told she has depression, and she said "yeah, checks out." I don't think she sees how much I admire her, and want her to stay in my life forever. But I never told her.
So, how can you be sure you're not someone's Soft and Safe?
A war I didn't sign up for.
We're teenage girls, me and my friends. In every sense of the word.
We've got one who loves k-dramas, Tom Holland and makes great almond cake, we've got a tiny one who's sarcasm mutes me every time (to her great delight) and loves anime, we've got one who's the light and laughter of any party, who's soft safety and recently was diagnosed with depression, and we've got a childish and dreaming one who's beautiful, stunning. Everyone tells her. It frightens her.
I haven't seen my friends in a while.
No one's fault, just life. School, tests, a pandemic. So imagine my happiness! Our excitement! When a friend's friend invited us to a party, and we found time to meet up beforehand, to talk! Laugh! Eat pizza!
My friends came. And we laughed. I told them I've never been to a party, that I was pretty nervous. Soft And Safe grinned at me, told me it was fine, the boys that invited us were nice. And guess what? She had kissed one of them!! A drunken make-out, wasn't that cool??!
Then she stopped. Her smile slipped a little
Well, not that cool. She started, sitting there beside my bed.
Not all of it.
And sentence for sentence, Soft And Safe, who I grew up with, who I'd known like the other girls since I was ten, new in town and was adopted into their little group, hesitantly told me a story I'll never forget. Because it taught me life.
Because the boy she made out with was nice.
Until he asked her to kiss him on the cheek for a picture and she felt too uncomfortable and drunk to say no.
Until, when they were kissing alone in a room, he kept trying to put his hand under her shirt, even when she pushed it away.
Until he pulled her onto his lap, crotch pushed uncomfortably against her jeans, and held her waist down.
Until he barked at the girl checking up on Soft And Safe to get out.
Until he put his hand into her pants, and answered "everything is fine, relax", when she told him she didn't like that.
Until he pushed her over the sink.
Until, when she said she didn't want that and that they should go back downstairs, he got back claps and fist bumps from the other boys.
She got her best friend, whom she had rejected a week earlier, call her a slut. He said he could never see her the same way again.
We thought it wouldn't happen to us. But as we sat there in my room, staring at her forced smile, eyes frantic, we realised how she had done everything right.
And it had still happened.
It had happened to me three weeks earlier, at my gym.
And we realised
It wouldn't stop. We wouldn't grow out of it.
Being a woman would be a war we hadn't signed up for.
We went to the party. I saw him. I didn't deck him like I had planned. Because everyone would think I'm the one out of line.
🌷
Moonbyul spring moodboard
I am not the biggest fan of spring but really tried to capture essence of it. Do you have a favorite flower? Enjoy and have fun
This was a visual quote, you can't tell me otherwise. Anyway I am starting to actually like and vibe with pink venom. Waiting for their comeback in september, I'll count that as my birthday present. Have fun and enjoy.
Kinda felt autumn vibes lately, and also Winter is so pretty. I hope you will like it. Have fun and drink some warm beverage.
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"por entre flores e estrelas, você usa uma delas como brinco...
bem vindos a masterlist dos meus trabalhos ! ♡
ressalto aqui que escrevo apenas wlw !!
pendurada na orelha...
newjeans :
itzy :
aespa :
le sserafim :
ive :
twice :
é o astronauta da saudade, com a boca toda vermelha..."
ノㅤ୨ৎ "guarde um pedaço de mim..." ꒰ᐢ. .ᐢ ᪲꒱ 𝅄 ᰔᩚ
૮ ´ ˘ ` ა 𓂂 ੭୧ mᥲstᥱrlist ♡ 𝆹 ￮
ᨳ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ᥥ⑅ᥥ "um cheiro do lado da cama..." ʿʿㅤ ㅤ๑
I need to be there, feeding cock to every one of these lil sluts. Forcing my dick down their throats til they cum and convulse with my dick in their mouth. 🥵
2kim is just gorgeous 😭💘
2kim matchs
2022’nin yazı özlendi💫
New Jeans Ditto - Lockscreen
Nearly finished with their designs. Hopefully, I can rig one of them soon.
yukyung pics (｀-_´-)ゞ
Sister Ghost Band!!
Storytime!!
So I went to this gig recently for Sister Ghost and got inspired and started sketching them while they were performing cause they looked cool. At the time I only had a sketchbook and like an hour to draw so it was super rushed and ugly ngl (was also drawing in the dark so I didn't realise it was bad until the lights came back on lol 😅). Thought that would be the end of it but another gig goer came up to me and said they'd seen me doodling and asked if they could see it. I thought "sure, its not that good but it couldn't hurt to show one person right?? 🤷♀️😂". Proceed to a small group of gig goers PLUS the band and their team surrounding my shit little drawing and the band even asked for a copy of it 💀🤯😳💓
While I was very embarrassed, it was sweet how uplifting and chill everyone was and even though I didn't like my art at the time I still felt proud of it and myself for choosing to develop to the point I could things like that and do it somewhat legibly. I decided that I would do a better version so here's the digital copy of my interpretation of Sister Ghost's Sionainn and Alice looking sick as hell!! 🙌🙌✨️
If you like rock or goth pop, please check them out they have just released an album recently called Beyond the Water and the cover art is sooooo pretty fr fr 😖🤌
kim jennie
dance of the shadows
kim jennie
isn't she just perfect?..
our golden shuhua
nature — girls
•| studio choom |•
don't you dare forget this comeback
Oh, tell me someone, why i am so in love with Favorite and why they aren't popular yet... Too sad
Check them, please
Watch 'Loca' and stream 'Catch Me'
Group: Favorite
Okay, let's get something straight (or rather, gay). This goes out to all kpop fans.
If I have to see one more comment or tweet talking about how weird/gross it is for fans to discuss an idol's sexuality, or come after other fans for suggesting an idol might be queer, or act all holier-than-thou and talk about how we shouldn't "assume people's sexuality, I am going to fucking scream.
And before you come at me with wild accusations, let me get this out of the way - in no way do I condone the hypersexualization or objectification of idols. Or anyone for that matter. But discussing someone's possible orientation or seeing something that points to queerness isn't inherently sexual or fetishizing and to equate those two things is disgustingly homophobic on levels I cannot even begin to unpack here. Sexualities of all kinds (gay, straight, bi, ace, pan etc) are all celebrations of humanity and while it is up to every individual how public or private they want to be with their identity, it is not wrong to playfully guess or acknowledge signs of queerness (especially when so often there are explicit signs of queercoding!)
I encounter people's internalized homophobia and heteronormativity everyday both online and in person but the level of cognitive dissonance people have about this subject sometimes in the kpop fandoms I'm in is ASTOUNDING. So here I am writing this post to deconstruct some of shit.
First of all, the "oh, we shouldn't assume their sexuality" bullshit. People assume sexuality all the time. Literally, so much of the kpop industry itself is built on performative heterosexuality. We see in this in how commonly idols are asked about their "ideal type" (usually clearly implying the opposite gender). In how the slightest interactions between idols of different genders leads to dating rumors. In how it's assumed, especially for boy groups, that the fandom is mostly women/girls. In how it's normal for fans to pretend they are in a relationship with their bias. Like, be so for fucking real, kpop fan culture is literally where the word DELULU comes from. So it's okay to assume sexuality with all of this, but it's not okay if someone teases or so much as suggests that an idol might not be straight? The only time assuming sexuality is cast as being wrong is when the sexuality in question is anything but heterosexuality. And coming from a queer person, if you have ever said this, disrespectfully, fuck you.
Because in the process of saying shit like that you are essentially insinuating, intentionally or unintentionally, that not being straight is bad or abnormal. Because why else would you treat the suggestion of someone's queerness as an insult? Why would the idea that an idol is not straight be offensive or demeaning?
Even worse, this bullshit, patronizing, hetero-morality complex shuts down any discourse queer kpop fans want to have about queercoding in the industry. And there is a LOT of that. Korea is conservative, coming out isn't the only way to affirm queerness. And not wanting, not being able to be out and proud does not negate someone's possible queerness, idol or not. So queercoding is often an important form of self expression for some idols and to deny that discourse is denying those very idols you claim to be protecting their right to express themselves, their personhood and humanity.
And the cherry on top of the fucking cake is that of all places to do this, KPOP? An entertainment business model that has literally been built on queerbaiting? As much as I enjoy kpop, as a queer fan, this is one of the less than savory aspects of industry I have to be aware of and contend with. And if you find yourself wondering how kpop queerbaits, think about the concept of "fan service" between members of an idol group. Fan service includes all instances of a group encouraged to perform "skinship" or flirt with each other to amuse the fans. Fan service is literally an euphemistic way of referring to queerbaiting and it is unbelievable how people don't even realize it. It's even more frustrating to see some fans having the audacity to brush things off as "fan service" when fans playfully (emphasis on playfully) engage in shipping. They don't even realize how problematic it is that such "fan service" is used for the viewing pleasure of straight fans and baits queer fans but simultaneously denies queer fans their space and voice and shuts down actual queerness in the industry. If you enjoy fan service (and nothing wrong with that by itself), but also demonize shippers or shut down queer fans discussing queercoding, you are part of the problem. Don't come up trying to say you wish the kpop industry would be a little less severe on idols dating or being queer, because you are part of the reason why the industry is the way it is.
To all my fellow queer fans, be absolutely unapologetic for your jokes or memes or ships or thought-provoking discussions on queerness and queercoding. There is no shame in our joy, we are not wrong or twisted for it. Because we know that we would celebrate our idols for who they are or want to be no matter how they choose to express themselves. Do not let people who would twist it into something perverted or bad, as an excuse for their own homophobia, shame you for the innocent joy of celebrating queerness. Do not let yourself be ashamed of it. As long as you are kind and respectful, love what you love and be queer and proud and happy.
eu to assim
can't explain why but im so gay for moon sua
https://youtu.be/igWf7VUb8QI
Please give this Mash-Up of Twice‘s “The Feels” and V6’s “Magic Carpet Ride” a listen!
It’s so so good and it only has like 88 views…
V6, for those who don’t know, is a famous JPop group. So this song is an awesome mix of Kpop and Jpop!
Finally did my magical girl trio as chibis in their civilian forms! They are basically Neapolitan ice cream cat-girl group. I designed them to be a complete indulgence design, to draw something that might be considered cliche or something that 12 year old me would like
Friendship goal
Having nice and inspiring people around you, especially very good girlfriend, brings you so much joy and happiness.
I have learned through my girlhood experience that to make good girlfriend you have to get ride of negative traits like jealousy, envy, negativity, to be able to attract good girlfriend.
I have never been loved and love as much as in good friendship🤍🫶🏾
# ! ☆ like strawberry soda . . 🌊
🍓 it's time to dream, alright? ˆᗜˆ
I'm loving this kind of aesthetic in kpop...
︶꒷꒦︶ ๋࣭ ⭑︶꒷꒦︶ ๋࣭ ⭑︶ ︶꒷꒦︶ ๋࣭ ⭑︶꒷꒦︶ ๋࣭ ⭑︶
birth - artms⭑.ᐟ ִֶָ☾. cosmic - red velvet
