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Writing at The Coffee Shop.
I live pretty close to a local coffee shop, which offers free Wi-Fi. I decided to start working on my writing orders at this coffee shop 1-2 a week. It was going well. I was able to get out of the house a few days a week, and it helped me to focus on my work with minimal distractions. It's only a few minutes from my home, and my niece works here, so we can walk together at times. Now? I'm here 4-5 days a week. My brain associates it with work, so I'm able to focus better on my writing orders. I barely get distracted by anything or even open social media. It's just me, my headphones, and my work. It's not crowded often and the employees are so welcoming. The prices are also reasonable, which is a must because I won't write here without at least purchasing a beverage. It's a small/local business, so I want to support them as best as I can. Having a place to just focus and write has been a game-changer for me. I think I also needed to get out of the house (without constantly walking to the store to do so). It's been working out for me, and I think coming here is one of the best decisions I've made for my writing. Furthermore, I can stay home if I need a mental health day, the weather is unkind, or I feel under the weather. But I also like the option of being able to walk up here at the last minute to get out or focus on an order. :)
Simply love that look how much peace she reflect by the thoughts absence
Don't let people know you're insecure.
Pick your hard...
Struggling to pay your bills and food because you keep lowering your standards.
Or
Struggling to open the authentic French 2012 vin bottle because your millionnaire boyfriend is away for work.
Stop dating hood men and start dating men with last names.
Do something every day that will make your future brighter.
New goal : having a bigger CV than all my friends by 30.
Do you really think your idols got their life put together by minding other people's business except of their's ?
Get a reality check.
If you really wanted the job or the internship, you would have called again, sent another mail or message but you didn't.
Do you really think they believe you when you wrote on your motivation letter "I am highly motivated for this role" ?
No honey you aren't. If you really were you'd do anything to get it yet you still overthink about a simple call or sending another mail.
That's not how they got your dream job.
Temporary discomfort to a lifetime comfort.
It's funny how you hate when people tell you that you're unintelligent and how of a waste you are to society yet don't make a thing to change that. You just accept that they're right and hate them for it.
No procrastination nor naps can beat the feeling you get after finishing every assigned tasks, learning and understanding your lesson, reading and eating what's good for your body.
Don't waste tears and time on people that aren't willing to do the same.
How bad do you want it ?
How much pain and discomfort are you willing to endure to achieve it ?
People who are terrified about what others think about them are actually worried about all the shitty things they think about themselves, being reflected back at them.
— Mark Manson
The only real tips is : start now.
Stop looking for more you already have the tools ! You just need to start and with time the tools will upgrade eventually but only if you start now.
Something sure is that you'll highly regret all your procrastination in your dead bed.
Jealousy and envy is your reminder to work harder.
Stay lazy and leave it easy for your competition.
Or should I say people that are better than you ? Because in your case we can't talk about competition...
Keep procrastinating and nobody will ever take you as an inspiration as you always daydream of.
Right keep making fun of people trying to make a change by calling them cringe ;
At least they're trying while you don't.
Winter arc is coming, prepare yourself 💋
There's no time machine, you're wasting hours and days that will NEVER come back.
To improve you don't need money, specific course, people or heritage.
You only need Yourself.
Imagine being rejected from your dream college/school because you preferred daydreaming than building that dream life.
Break-ups are so unnecessary
get you someone better
1 month and 28 days left to 2024.
Choose your time wisely before 2025.
Your mom was right, it's the damn phone.
